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Boyfriend doesn't want me to get a dildo

We're teenagers so we can't have sex much due to us both living with our parents, and I was basically complaining about how little sex we have. I then said I've thought about getting a dildo, because masturbation with my fingers doesn't do much for me and I'm so so horny all the time! I swear I have a higher sex drive than him. And he reacted really badly to that, he got all upset and said that he doesn't mind me using my fingers at all but I shouldn't use a dildo?! It's not like I'm trying to replace him, we just don't have sex enough and I need to satisfy my needs.
He's 17 I'm 16 (almost 17 :wink: )

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Tell him you'll use it together.
Get an 8inch black one and sit it proudly on your mantle when he visits.

Original post by JennaEmBee
Tell him you'll use it together.


I think the point was they dont get enough alone time together. If they do he is already packing a falic so no need for a second.
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Ndella
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Just buy one?
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Jordooooom
Just get one, it's not up to him lol. You could always buy him one of those fake vaginas too? :holmes:
Just buy one anyway. It's not like he HAS to know about it.

My boyfriend has bought me more than one sex toy. He thinks it's hot. We're long distance though so there's even less sex... Anyway, if you really want one, just get one. Maybe you can try and incorporate it into your sex life and change his mind.
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mosmof
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lol just get one. better than using someone else's real one!
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hoochiebear
If you want one, get one - if he doesn't like it he can either suck it up or help you out
He might feel intimidated by its size. Tell him you'll name it Norman - nobody can be threatened by a Norman.
Just get one. Does he have to know?
Arent vibrators meant to be better or something, and at least more discrete. You can hide it from him.
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MJ1012
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Get one smaller than his dick, then he won't feel like you have more fun with "Norman" than with him.
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581371
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Go Sharkeisha on his ass
Original post by WoodyMKC
He might feel intimidated by its size. Tell him you'll name it Norman - nobody can be threatened by a Norman.


Norman sounds rather like the word enormous. "Enormous Norman". :wink:
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Truflais
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Buy a mould a penis. He may feel better about that.
Gosh when I was your age you think living with my parents would stop me from getting a bit of minge . You not heard of parks,KFC toilets,flats,train stations etc ?
He probably feels a bit threatened by it - as though you're going to find him inferior in comparison. Just try reassuring him.
Please keep discussion to the issue at hand, if one should be bought & how to approach the issue with the OP's partner - discussion about which sex toy(s) or how you use sex toys to get isn't allowed
Original post by WoodyMKC
nobody can be threatened by a Norman.

Tell that to people in 1066.

To OP, do it at yours or his when the family is out, if that's possible. Failing that and coming back to the vibrator, you can say to him, "what if I blocked all porn on your computer?"
Original post by JennaEmBee
Tell him you'll use it together.
Human brain resambles much like the brain of a bull , wich makes love to a plastic cow,, ( u must have seen that one day when a farmer needs to collect bull sperm )

The male human gets jalouse of the plastic penis ( dildo )

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