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i proper like this lad, real badly. we nearly got togtehr, but then he got back with his ex. however we remained friends. he has just spliot with his girlfriend and i right like him. But he knows of my slaggy behaviour with my friends friends boyfriend. I think this may have put him off me, if he still likes me. My friends think he does but they dont know him. I really like this guy. I also feel guilty about this other guy, the one i fancy has said he does see my behaviour as bad, but hes the one more in the wrong. but i think now he just thinks im an easy little tart. and i dont think he likes me that ,much anymore. i really like himk. but i cant tell him andf then ruin out friendship!
what shall i do?

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Reply 1

bunthulhu

lol?

If this is real, I'd say the first thing to do would be to stop doing whatever it is you're doing with this other girl's boyfriend, and most probably give up on the guy you like if he has found out. To be honest if he's a half decent guy he probably won't be interested in someone who gets in with other girls' boyfriends! I mean, you described yourself as slaggy, so what makes you think he'll think any better of you?! ;judge;

I think basically just leave it and find another guy who's not involved in any of that messiness.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

i iknow, thats what i thought. he told me i was a slag but that it was more bad on him than me. and i dunno, i cant give up on him i proper like him. and i just dont know what to do. im disgusting. this is real by the way. sorry im a bit drunk it might not make sense. this guy i like hes brill. hes fit, hes funny and he listens to me and treats me as a human, which other people dont. he knows everything about me, all the problems and stuff i had that i cant tell my friends. i am a slag, im worthless,w hy would he want me?

Reply 3

clare88

but he onlty said i was a slag cuz i kept calling myself one

Reply 4

sweetface.

Well if he told you that he's not interested in being in a relationship with you EVER. The best thing to do is just move on! He has a girlfirend.

Reply 5

Lil' Miss Smiley

clare88

but he onlty said i was a slag cuz i kept calling myself one

ooppss

Reply 6

clare88

no he didnt, he didnt say that, he still said he liked me when he was with this other girl, but they split now, and he emailed me to tell me, first eprson he told. and everytime they argued etc, i was the first one he told.

Reply 7

clare88

ok forgot anonymous, but none knows me on here anyway, and clare isnt even my name, so yeah! my name was taken and clare is my middle name!

Reply 8

sweetface.

Is he really that important to you?

yeah he is

Well you've only really told us bad things about yourself so I can't really give advice on making him want to be with you. How is he acting towards you? Flirty? Hinting at anything? Overly friendly or touchy feely? If he's acting that way then he might be interested and provided he doesn't get back with his ex again then you might have a shot. But, if you nearly got together, and then he chose his ex over you, then I'd advise against it to be honest. If he's acting just like a friend towards you then he's probably not interested.

Reply 11

sweetface.

Well to me it sounds like a little crush, if he really liked you in the first place he still would have not called you a "slag" in the first place even if you kept saying you were. There are plently of more guys out there.

Reply 12

clare88

thats what i thouht, but ewe live a long way away,he lives in rotheram i live in sheffielsd a nd he has had problems wirth his ex the wholer time they was tigtehrher.
his friend told me that he lieks me
but i doint trust him
i really really like him
he talks to me all the time
he quite touchy ffeely
but he tells me stuff liek who he fancieds (famous)
hes lovely

Reply 13

clare88

he sed slag like haha yeh of cousrse you are lucy when i kept aayoing it to him n then he was liek u have notyhing to lose its the lad who deos
n then he said that i should get rid of this guy and if he cuases any touble he would be round to sort him out (hes nopt really like that! but still)

Reply 14

clare88

sorry my spelling is really bad i m sorry i dont usually get drunk

Reply 15

sweetface.

Well is there any other way for you to keep in contact then? Since you live far away from each other. I suggest try not to rush into a relationship with him, becuase it might end up in tears. I think if you talked to him and got to know him better then it might build a better relationship with him. Then take it from there!