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does he like me?

Bit confused about this guy i met last night. Early on in the evening we talked briefly but only hello really. Later on he came up to me and we chatted for a while cause i know one of his friends. We started dancing up close and i felt really in tune with him. He put his hands on my bum but then my friend came over so we seperated and i didn't see him again. I know his number from a friend. I just can't tell if he was into me or just a bit drunk looking for a pull at the end of the night. Can't stop thinking about him though. Shall i leave it - i don't know what to do!
its worth sending a text message just casually 'hiya im so and so did u have a good night last night, recovered yet? ive got one hell of a hangover' or something similar
Well, normally, if he is really interested he'll get your number from your mutual friends and will call you. So if you are after a proper *relationship* then wait for him to call, and if not - he doesn't like you enough.

However, if you call him than he'll most probably call you back and initiate a relationship because you are a girl and he is a boy, so he's automatically interested on a shallow level. It could grow to be a proper relationship, but probably won't and might only last until he dances with someone he *wants* to call. So yeah.

Best thing to do is to find out his msn, sign in when he's online and see if he'll start a conversation. There might show him that you might be interested but it will be up to him to decide if he wants to do anything about it. Don't start a conversation yourself though, if he is not interested, he is not interested. Go and dance with someone else :smile:
Reply 3
Yh, as devilgirl suggests, you don't really have anything to lose - why not just send a casual sounding text?
Reply 4
send him something like
"cant believe you left last night without saying goodbye"

Or something bit cheeky and flirty. That way the ball is in his court, if he flirts back and says "ill make it up to you" he probably likes you. If he doesnt flirt and sys something like
"yeah i had to go" Then I'd say just leave him.
^ yeal lol forget my advice, that's what i'd do :biggrin:
....... being a boy i think causal text would be best, not to strong though....and maybe slightly jokingly...
tanusha-tomsk
Well, normally, if he is really interested he'll get your number from your mutual friends and will call you. So if you are after a proper *relationship* then wait for him to call, and if not - he doesn't like you enough.

However, if you call him than he'll most probably call you back and initiate a relationship because you are a girl and he is a boy, so he's automatically interested on a shallow level. It could grow to be a proper relationship, but probably won't and might only last until he dances with someone he *wants* to call. So yeah.

Best thing to do is to find out his msn, sign in when he's online and see if he'll start a conversation. There might show him that you might be interested but it will be up to him to decide if he wants to do anything about it. Don't start a conversation yourself though, if he is not interested, he is not interested. Go and dance with someone else :smile:


Are you one of those traditional girls who believes that women should sit on their arses, look pretty and let the guy do all the leg work?
Reply 8
"Chase me Brad, Chase me!"

Well, if they are mutual friends you will probably see him out again on another night, so just make sure you look hot and do some more flirting.... after a while you will be in his head all the time and he won't be able to resist...boys are like dogs they need to be trained!
Guess what.... I WAS JOKING!
Reply 9
I don't know, perhaps you could ring him up and ask him?
Bubblebee
"Chase me Brad, Chase me!"

Well, if they are mutual friends you will probably see him out again on another night, so just make sure you look hot and do some more flirting.... after a while you will be in his head all the time and he won't be able to resist...boys are like dogs they need to be trained!
Guess what.... I WAS JOKING!


:eek: Oh that's so insulting :wink: :biggrin:. And yes I did see the you were joking message when I quoted you.
matt@internet
:eek: Oh that's so insulting :wink: :biggrin:. And yes I did see the you were joking message when I quoted you.


I guessed by the cheeky smilies! You are well trained!:p: :p:
Bubblebee
I guessed by the cheeky smilies! You are well trained!:p: :p:


:whip :p:
he's just using you so he can get with your cat.
Reply 14
dementedbunny
he's just using you so he can get with your cat.


true story.

:rolleyes:
tanusha-tomsk
Well, normally, if he is really interested he'll get your number from your mutual friends and will call you. So if you are after a proper *relationship* then wait for him to call, and if not - he doesn't like you enough.

However, if you call him than he'll most probably call you back and initiate a relationship because you are a girl and he is a boy, so he's automatically interested on a shallow level. It could grow to be a proper relationship, but probably won't and might only last until he dances with someone he *wants* to call. So yeah.

Best thing to do is to find out his msn, sign in when he's online and see if he'll start a conversation. There might show him that you might be interested but it will be up to him to decide if he wants to do anything about it. Don't start a conversation yourself though, if he is not interested, he is not interested. Go and dance with someone else :smile:

That's ridiculous, what if he's shy and hoping she'll call him? What if he assumes she'll phone or text or something if she's interested, like you are telling her to assume now?

As for the bolded part... god, you love yourself, don't you? :confused: Boys do exactly what girls do. They start a relationship if it'll make themselves happy. Sometimes, making themselves happy means making the other person happy too. But sometimes it doesn't. One will most likely end up a decent relationship, one won't, regardless of who phones who. This is just pure sexism. :rolleyes:

Edit: and besides, some girls do exactly the same. You have no idea how many times I've seen my more gullible friends get hurt by girls who do that.