cheating boy

I have been seeing a guy who already has a girlfriend for about 8 months only a few people know this but he told me he loved me and suchlike but when I threatened to tell his girlfriend he hasnt spoken to me since :frown:

im totally heartbroken because I was under the impression he was going to end it with her but he has been putting it off.I feel sorry for her and myself.He's played us both to get what he wanted.I don't know what to do but i'm totally heartbroken :mad:

Reply 1

generalebriety

16

On the other hand, maybe the entire world doesn't revolve around you and him getting together, and he doesn't want to tell his girlfriend he's been with for a long time (more than 8 months, obviously) that actually he doesn't really like her that much and that there are better people out there that he's been seeing for the best part of a year, because she'll be as upset as you are now - or maybe, just maybe she'll be completely devastated and hate you and want to kill you both. You are trying to steal a guy who you've been going out with for 8 months, knowing that he's already had a girlfriend, and you think you have it bad that he doesn't want to tell her? What about her if he ever finally does tell her or she finds out (and she will)? What about him, having to make all the decisions, being blackmailed by you into leaving his girlfriend, and eventually knowing that either way one of you will get hurt, probably both?

What you're doing isn't commendable in itself, you have no right to complain that he won't leave his girlfriend for you.

Edit: you know, when I saw this thread title, I almost felt sorry for you - I thought someone had been cheating on you, which is an absolutely horrible thing for a person to do to you. Then I found out it was the exact opposite. Guess who's absolutely horrible now.

Reply 2

bunthulhu

14

If you didn't want something like this to happen then to be honest you shouldn't have got involved in the first place, clearly it was only going to end in tears.

Reply 3

matt@internet

12

Anonymous

I have been seeing a guy who already has a girlfriend for about 8 months only a few people know this but he told me he loved me and suchlike but when I threatened to tell his girlfriend he hasnt spoken to me since :frown:

im totally heartbroken because I was under the impression he was going to end it with her but he has been putting it off.I feel sorry for her and myself.He's played us both to get what he wanted.I don't know what to do but i'm totally heartbroken :mad:

Both of you should get the blame in equal measures. I have no sympathy for you getting yourself into this situation. You have both played her for a fool. If he's played you for a fool then your've played him for a fool, by actually thinking he's so stupid as to give up this cushti life he has (two women on the go at once). Basically don't come here looking for sympathy and don't try to think that he has played you for a fool.

Reply 4

Angelic Sarah

If hes cheated on her then he can cheat on you, i wouldnt really wanna be with him if i were you.

If hes done it once he can do it again.

Sorry but its true

The only person i feel sorry for here is the other girl.

Reply 5

Sheen

11

bunthulhu

If you didn't want something like this to happen then to be honest you shouldn't have got involved in the first place, clearly it was only going to end in tears.

agreed.
plus if he did tell you he loved you when you mentioned that you were gonna tell his g/f, well id say he only said that cos he hopes it will shut you up

Reply 6

username47781

20

I would keep away from him if i was you

Reply 7

anjurdsg

11

Carl1982

I would keep away from him if i was you

:dito:

Reply 8

sweetface.

It's wrong, what you doing. Imagine if you were this other girl his girlfirend, you would be really hurt. If i was you i would stay away from him, you would be doing this other girl a favor.

Reply 9

Alewhey

Anonymous

I have been seeing a guy who already has a girlfriend for about 8 months only a few people know this but he told me he loved me and suchlike but when I threatened to tell his girlfriend he hasnt spoken to me since :frown:

im totally heartbroken because I was under the impression he was going to end it with her but he has been putting it off.I feel sorry for her and myself.He's played us both to get what he wanted.I don't know what to do but i'm totally heartbroken :mad:

:withstupi

Reply 10

username47781

20

Oh and how would you like it when your the one with a boyfriend who's cheating on with you with another girl, put yourself in the girlfriend's shoes, how would it feel if it was you.

Reply 11

sluggabed

6

Anonymous

I have been seeing a guy who already has a girlfriend for about 8 months only a few people know this but he told me he loved me and suchlike but when I threatened to tell his girlfriend he hasnt spoken to me since :frown:

im totally heartbroken because I was under the impression he was going to end it with her but he has been putting it off.I feel sorry for her and myself.He's played us both to get what he wanted.I don't know what to do but i'm totally heartbroken :mad:

so...have been seeing him for 8 months..or has he been with her for 8 months?

either way - you already know the answer is just to stay clear of him

Reply 12

Princess In Disguise

hit him-useless prick

Reply 13

Sheen

11

Princess In Disguise

hit him-useless prick

it might make him feel better but its not gonna solve anything
she should just break it off and leave him to it.
it was silly to get involved with someone whos in a relationship

Reply 14

sweetface.

Sheen

it might make him feel better but its not gonna solve anything
she should just break it off and leave him to it.
it was silly to get involved with someone whos in a relationship

Exactly! I agree.

Reply 15

SuperhansFavouriteAlsatian

Anonymous

I have been seeing a guy who already has a girlfriend for about 8 months only a few people know this but he told me he loved me and suchlike but when I threatened to tell his girlfriend he hasnt spoken to me since :frown:

im totally heartbroken because I was under the impression he was going to end it with her but he has been putting it off.I feel sorry for her and myself.He's played us both to get what he wanted.I don't know what to do but i'm totally heartbroken :mad:

What the **** do you want, sympathy?! You knew he was going behind her back, and now you're heartbroken because he didn't want you to tell his girlfriend? Well no ****ing ****, you idiot. What were you expecting, him to be a shining knight of valour and honesty? He was cheating on his girlfriend to be with you!!

Yes you got played, but at least you deserve it for being such a mong. His girlfriend's done nothing wrong, even when apparently others knew about it. She's the one that deserve sympathy.

Reply 16

AndySoOoOoN

HAHA, thats quality. So you thought it was ok to cheat on the other girl, and now you want us to what? Comfort you? He played you both! You played her! Shes innocent.

SHES the one that deserves sympathy, you deserve 1/2 less revenge from her than he does.

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