how does everyone get over totally embarasing moments?

i had an embarasing moment about 2 months ago and it was dreadful.im still cringing over it and i dont know how to get over it. how does everyone cope when something embarasing happens to them?

What was it?

I either:

(a) Laugh it off.
(b) Take my attention away from it completely.
(c) Distract myself by going out, doing fun stuff; remembering that embarrassing moments happen all the time, and in time it will not be that big of a deal.

Hope that helps.

Reply 3

danni_bella

17

Yeah it happens to the best of us. Just learn from it and move on.

Oh and the people who remind you of them are sad and are not worth knowing anyway :smile:

HTH2

Reply 4

Shakespeare1

OP

11

try accidently telling your teacher that you fancy a teacher that she knows well and her probably telling him that i fancy him?? i know its stupid immature and childish but i seriously cant get over it now that hes avoiding me.

Reply 5

10634

1

Don't think about it. AT ALL. You liked this teacher, eh? Go to google.com and type in celebrities that you find attractive. That'll get your mind off of her. Surround yourself with friends, and don't dwell on what happened!!

Reply 6

CalculusMan

10

DarkShadows08

Don't think about it. AT ALL. You liked this teacher, eh? Go to google.com and type in celebrities that you find attractive. That'll get your mind off of her. Surround yourself with friends, and don't dwell on what happened!!

Him...

Edit: Enless your refering to the teacher she told.

Reply 7

Fluent in Lies

2

Sink way down low so even the ants tower above you like gods.

Reply 8

Shakespeare1

OP

11

im not going to do anything and i never was going to, but how can i get back on good terms with him?

Ants don't judge.

Ha. Whoops. I meant Him. Sorry!

Reply 11

Fluent in Lies

2

Dr_Evil_666

try accidently telling your teacher that you fancy a teacher that she knows well and her probably telling him that i fancy him?? i know its stupid immature and childish but i seriously cant get over it now that hes avoiding me.

Why do you think she told him?

Reply 12

Spikerocker

6

Why did you tell your teacher about your crush?

Reply 13

Shakespeare1

OP

11

Fluent in Lies

Why do you think she told him?

because well i think he already knew i liked him and was fine with it, he was talking to me still. it was friday breaktime that i 'accidently' told her and come lunchtime hes glaring at me and walking away from me- 'avoiding me'

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

You never know he might not actually be avoiding you; you might be a tad bit paranoid!
I did a similar thing only the teacher i fancied found out because i wrote in someones book my first name and his last name.. not good.. and the guy whom i wrote the names in, went and showed him.. bastard!
The teacher ignored me for a few months; i went from being his fave pupil to absolutely nothing.. horrible.. but with time, he grew to like me again and were absolutely fine now! :smile:

Time heals, trust me! But then again, i was only 12 at the time so i had time to 'make it up'. Dont make him feel uncomfortable or anything, just behave normally and do as you did - no flirting though cause that could make him feel wierd about everything and worry about his job.

Reply 15

bedbug

14

Just learn to laugh at yourself. I'm sure you'll see the funny side in a few years, so why torture yourself until then?

Reply 16

Ghetto_Princess12

We all have our embarasing moments but getting over it will depend on how fast you try forgetting about it. Try laughting it off and think optimistic and most important learn from these moments and move on..

Reply 17

spongepantssquarebob

2

Sorry to say it but your teacher must be well immature if he is avoiding you just because you have a crush on him, any mature adult would have made a joke about it and moved on!

And the best way to deal with the Sit. is to forget it ever happend, distract yourself with other things, get new crushes on new teachers and take up drink :biggrin:

... you dont have to do the last part!

Reply 18

anjurdsg

11

Dr_Evil_666

try accidently telling your teacher that you fancy a teacher that she knows well and her probably telling him that i fancy him?? i know its stupid immature and childish but i seriously cant get over it now that hes avoiding me.

dude treat it as a joke... chillax... haha

jus laugh it off ...

hey, i've asked my school librarian out in front of about 20 people, and i got rejected ... wouldnt you expect me to hide my face from her every time? well i didnt ... i just laughed it off with my friends and made a joke about how dumb her face looked when i asked her out ... and guess what? it was SHE who was too embarassed to face me after that, which meant i could sleep in the back of the library without having her taunt me, cos she was just TOO embarassed ... haha i told her that and she laughed ... after that we became good friends (but nothing further, lol, coz its illegal to have a student-teacher relationship at all, at least in my school...)

come on man, be strong :wink:

BTW, i dont recommend you to embarass a school teacher, lol... it could land you in serious trouble ... when i did that thing i was about 13 and very young and immature

PS: :dito: i agree with Daniel Son's (or whatever the name's) post

Reply 19

supertramp

9

Well, honestly, you were highly unlikely to get anywhere with the teacher anyway so you haven't really lost anything. Just try to see the funny side, it could be so much worse. At least one of your teachers (how did they know?) didn't tell all the other teachers you were gay and they ALL started taking the piss, no?

how does everyone get over totally embarasing moments?

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