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Threes a crowd....

I have two best friends. I've known one of them for 10 years...we went to primary school and high school together and we're in sixth form now. I'm just gonna call her FRIEND X so no one gets confused. My other best friend i've only got to know in a year and a half, and i'm gonna call her FRIEND Y.

Well, basically, i've been saying some things to FRIEND Y about FRIEND X because i feel that FRIEND X is spending too much time with her other group of friends and i feel replaced. Now, i've found that FRIEND Y is so damn rude!

FRIEND X unexpectedly arrived at my house the day before yesterday and it was her b'day, so she wanted to go to the location with me, as she didn't want to be alone. when FRIEND Y found out, she went away, and when i followed her coz i sensed something was wrong, she was crying and said to me "You always bitch to me about FRIEND X and yet you came here with her, i feel stabbed in the back..."

First of all, she bitches too. Second of all, even when i did explain to her that the visit was unexpected, she was rude to me. i can't tolerate it. and when FRIEND X came, i told her what happened and she too got upset. and no matter what, it was FRIEND X's bday. Its dread on FRIEND X.

I love FRIEND X a lot and i've just realised how much she means to me after y'day and i feel so bad in saying anything bad about her. and as for FRIEND Y, i cant be friends with a girl who treats me like crap and doesnt trust me. Shall i tell FRIEND X the truth that i kinda did bitch and im really sorry? What shall i say to FRIEND Y? BAre in mind that FRIEND Y has a hot temper.
Girls ey? :rolleyes:
Reply 2
... You were so innocent =).

NOT. Take a look around at what you did. I would of been upset too, and i'm a guy.

You bitch about Friend X, and then you go off with her OVER friend Y, whats that make friend Y feel? Wh is it okay for you to bitch about friend X, is that fair to her. Is it fair to judge for one event she was upset with a reason?

Yeah, great.
Reply 3
Bloody hell. Talk about cutting off your nose to spite your face. Thats what bitching gets you, live and learn and try to be nice to people you call 'friends.'
Reply 4
gas_panic!
Girls ey? :rolleyes:


Lol - exactly.
I have no idea what any of that meant. But it sounds like you're a nasty person to be around.
Reply 6
generalebriety
I have no idea what any of that meant. But it sounds like you're a nasty person to be around.



/Signed
You all sound like idiots.

Anyway, you got it wrong. Three's not a crowd, three's a GANGBANG WOOP WOOP.
Reply 8
DanGrover
You all sound like idiots.

Anyway, you got it wrong. Three's not a crowd, three's a GANGBANG WOOP WOOP.

haha you make me laugh :rolleyes:
Reply 9
Why didnt you just tell friendy y/b/g whatever that you felt she wasnt spending enough time with you guys? Instead of telling friend x/r/s.

Best friends eh? But you cant talk to her about a simple thing like that?

Bodge job.
Reply 10
generalebriety
I have no idea what any of that meant. But it sounds like you're a nasty person to be around.

Yeah me too! lol, it was a confusing post.
Reply 11
lmao, poor TC, your life is so hard. ;[
Reply 12
You are the one who's been rude. It's all pretty immature, but I can totally see why friend Y would be annoyed, she clearly thought she was your best friend since you were bitching about friend X. It's funny because the reason you were annoyed with friend X (basically for favouring other friends over you) is the same reason that friend Y is annoyed with you, yet apparently you're right and friend Y is wrong.

Learn from this and stop bitching. But why can't friend Y be included in your things with friend X? A bit more maturity here wouldn't go amiss.
such girls...
theres nothin worse than mates who complain you spend too much time with your other mates. drives me mad :angry:
as far as i understood from the X/Y stuff (probably not a lot) your just normal girls are you not?