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I dnt expect to have to tlk to my bf everyday cos we both like our space but i saw him on friday n didnt speak to him yestersday n i havent spoken to him 2day....i hoping its cos of the tennis but i cant help feelin paranoid tht he doesnt like me nemore eventho he said he loved me on friday....please cnt u help me feel a little less paranoid...i wnt see him for a while now n i miss him already it isnt possible tht he will jus stop tlkin to me jus like tht will it? eventho he said he wud neva do tht....please help me!!!

sorry if it isnt much of a problem im probably making a big deal out of nothing i jus want reassurance!!!!
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:hugs: im sure everything s fine-hun dont worry
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Why don't you talk to him?
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Why don't you just text him or something? It's fair enough to like your space but you clearly don't want so much space that you don't talk to him for days, so initiate contact! Maybe he just doesn't want to crowd you, or has been busy. It can be hard if you're not in any kind of routine with a partner to know how much to contact each other, and when you should start worrying!
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Anonymous #1
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i hope so
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i hv rung him...he didnt answer....i txt him bt he neva replies neway wot else am i suppose to do?
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Ask him for sex.
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Anonymous #1
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hmmm do u think i should ring him every hr till he answers?
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I think your too clingy.
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hmmm do u think i should ring him every hr till he answers?
That will scare him, he may think your starting to be obessive.
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Anonymous #1
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im not clingy but i didnt tlk to him yday n hes gonna b busy for the nxt 2weeks
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It sounds like you are, you need just let him have his space. He's letting himself have a break from you, the least you can do is just forget about him for 2 weeks. 2 weeks is nothing, i was without my boyfirend for 6 months! I am not going to go into that, but i am sure you will cope.
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hmmm do u think i should ring him every hr till he answers?
I hope that was a joke, but in case it wasn't: NO.

He doesn't sound like a particularly considerate boyfriend at the mo, one minute telling you he loves you and the next not responding to texts and ignoring you. Maybe i'm just a pessimist but be careful he's not just using you. For now just wait for him to contact you and proceed with caution, you've done enough!
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Why don't you talk to him?
why not do that.
plus ive learnt and also been told that maybe its a girl thing to want to talk nearly everyday but boys well they dont seem to feel the need to talk to use everyday booo


(Original post by Anonymous)
im not clingy but i didnt tlk to him yday n hes gonna b busy for the nxt 2weeks
im sure he could find sometime to talk to you. if he wanted to he'd make time
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how can i tlk to him if he wnt answer his fone? i dnt want to keep ringin him cos tht will piss him off...gonna wait till later cos he always cracks and tells me he will call me lol
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I don't think he is being as serious enough to have a relationship with you. I think you should rethink what you should do.
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Heres an idea right. Use a telephone, ring him up, say "Hi babes(ROFL), wanna go out somewhere/meet up/shag(he might be up for that), i really miss you"

If he says no to all 3 without a good reason, dump him. Then smash his house up. Securing the knowledge that youve tried your best!
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well I don’t think your clingy. To me you just sound a bit young and inexperienced and no one can blame you for that now can they?
Listen I cant tell you what to do for sure, cause that not my position but to me it sound like your putting a little to much importants on things that on the whole are not telling you that much. So honey you take a step back and let him call you cause im sure he will. now chin up stomach in and smile," see that’s more like it"
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how can i tlk to him if he wnt answer his fone? i dnt want to keep ringin him cos tht will piss him off...gonna wait till later cos he always cracks and tells me he will call me lol
hmm maybe hes ignoring you on perpose :confused:
i think hes being a bit unfair.
he so cant be bust 24/7 for 2 weeks so he cant speak to you at all.
why not text him or call him at home so he'd have to answer the phone and talk to you
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dont ask him for sex
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