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a question for the girls that go on holiday

I seem to always get this impression that when girls go on holiday with their mate, espically to a foregin country, that they are usually up for having sex. mods this is a genuine post! this is the perception that I have grown up knowing about from my brothers and there mates.

I am going away this summer for my first proper lads holiday. I would rate myself as average looking but I have the confidence to approach girls.

if I say, am talking to a girl and just being friendly, is it ever likely that something more will happen after a pull and is it easy to initiate that we want to do something more.

basically what I am wondering, and I know that it varies between different girls, but am I right in believing that holiday is the time when girls tend to let loose and generally speaking be more up for fun because of the holiday culture. also, what are the best ways to initiate this in a simple way that doesn't show that you are just after one thing. I ask this because more recently I have actually taken more pleasure in actually getting to know someone rather than some of my mates who say they pulled numerous girls in a night but didn't even speak to them. cheers all

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Reply 1
:rolleyes:


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Reply 2
i think lots of girls do let loose more on holiday but afaik a lot more guys are like this than girls. some people i know went on holiday to zante last month and some of the things they told me happened there shocked me because they are really posh and well-behaved back home!!
Reply 3
perhaps older or just more experienced girls.

none of my friends would, we're 18.
I suppose it depends on the type of holiday. Some girls (ie, me) go on holidays because they want to experience the culture of an interesting country and see interesting sights. Sex is not the goal, in this case.

Some people go on holiday just to party, get drunk, etc (ie, to Ibiza). Sex might be the goal, in such a case...
Reply 5
Well my friends aren't all that experienced in terms of one night stands etc, and most of them would pull but nothing more on holiday. A few of them in the past have done more, but on the whole we go on holiday to have a laugh as a group of friends, so even the few who do regularly have one night stands are actually less inclined to do so on holiday as it would mean going off, possibly putting themselves at risk and just kind of ruining the girly vibe.
You'd think so, but I have never managed to get any... *cries*
Reply 7
It might be true for some people, but not all.

When I went away with my mates a few years ago, I was in a serious relationship and so therefore I wasn't planning on pulling anyone and I didn't pull anyone.

I'm going to Ibiza this year and I will more than likely be going out with my sister - not going to pull though - I'm getting married next year! So not all girls are usually up for having sex on holiday.
Reply 8
I'd say the only type of girls who'd have a one night stand on holiday would be the type who'd do it at home anyway.
Perhaps the concerntration of said girls are higher, but I don't think just being on holiday sways many girls' sexual stance too far.
Reply 9
Eww think about the diseases that one night stands carry with! You don't really know the person, they could be carrying anything in them. Personally i think its a bad idea just for looking out for girls who are willing to have that one night with you, you don't know what they could have :tongue: yuck. They could end up giving you an unwanted disease for you and the rest of your life. Just typing this up scares me!
I go to Malia in 6 days time, none of us are planning on having any sex, doesn't mean none of us will, I just won't be any more 'up for it' than I am at home. I agree with what someone else said, the girls that have lots of one night stands on hol probably do it at home too they're just more of them there!
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I seem to always get this impression that when girls go on holiday with their mate, espically to a foregin country, that they are usually up for having sex. mods this is a genuine post! this is the perception that I have grown up knowing about from my brothers and there mates.

also, what are the best ways to initiate this in a simple way that doesn't show that you are just after one thing. I ask this because more recently I have actually taken more pleasure in actually getting to know someone rather than some of my mates who say they pulled numerous girls in a night but didn't even speak to them. cheers all


But you ARE just after one thing...!
Reply 12
my thought exactly. u r just after one thing..

once youve pulled the girl and spent a bit of nite with her and your chatting/joking/kissing/dancing just say u wana come back to mine! but in a more charming kinda way! lol you can nomrally tell which girls are up for it and which arnt by their behaviour through the night
El Scotto
:rolleyes:


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lol yes i agree
on girlie holidays, girls unfortunately tend to get drunk. if there is a drunk girl, don't try to pull her. it's actually illegal, so don't go there.
that's my only advice.
Wow =/

I'd be even less likely to go having one night stands in a strange land. If I got into trouble it'd be even harder to get out of it than back home.
Some girls confuse me :frown:
Reply 16
allmyshoes
on girlie holidays, girls unfortunately tend to get drunk. if there is a drunk girl, don't try to pull her. it's actually illegal, so don't go there.
that's my only advice.


yer someone even said to my mates "make sure you get consent, these girls will cry rape at anything nowadays"

and thats the thing that I am worried about. Obviously I want to if I meet a girl that i genuinely like and she is actually a nice person and not some bitch, but i really just don't know
Reply 17
I think it depends on the place and the girl. If you they are going to a place such as Ibiza then many will go with a holiday idea.
Reply 18
-x-buttercup-x-
I go to Malia in 6 days time, none of us are planning on having any sex, doesn't mean none of us will..........


lucky you! i only got back from crete last week stayed in the place next to malia called hersonissos. had so much fun and wanna go back now! it was much more european and not so british which was great!and i got to know some real greeks!
btw clubs are free to get in there!! and scooters are everywhere!

talking about one nite stands if the girl wants one she will defo show it so as long as you dont push you will get there.
i personally would never sleep with anyone who i know only for a few hours.
perhaps you shouldnt be looking for one nite stands...holiday romance is so much nicer.

anyways dont stress about it too much just enjoy the sun!
oooh I bet Hersonissos is much nicer than Malia, I have a dreadful feeling it's going to be chav city. Still looking forward to it though, acn't wait to sunbathe by the pool all day!