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Guys don't turn me on
neither do girls or people, Ive always been like this is there something wrong with me? The only thing that gets me excited are strange things like the thought of being caned etc. Im not looking for sex chat I just wanted to know if im abnormal, different or something? Im 21 and female, still virgin
Id rather have a bf than not have one though (I think).
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dogtanian
Hmm. I guess you have a fetish. It's the submission, not who you're with, that does it for you. If you find a partner who's sexually compatible, and I'm sure you will, that won't be a problem.
Yea exactly, you might be right but Ive just thought im actually im lying a bit, I do like this guy but he is WAY older than me, is married etc Ive really liked him since I was 14. Im trying to ignore this though as its just mad and wrong. Obviously Id never show it as he'd think im mad lol and never speak to me again, but hes the only one Ive ever actually had feelings for but generally im not interested in guys
btw im female lol
Anonymous
neither do girls or people, Ive always been like this is there something wrong with me? The only thing that gets me excited are strange things like the thought of being caned etc. Im not looking for sex chat I just wanted to know if im abnormal, different or something? Im 21 and female, still virgin Id rather have a bf than not have one though (I think).
Id rather have a bf than not have one though (I think).Abnormal perhaps, but different certainly.
dogtanian
I'm sure you'll be attracted to a few people in your life. That's just an example. Some people fancy everything with a pulse. Some people don't. I wouldn't worry too much.
I hope your right
i think ur problem is u havnt meet me, then u'd be sorted,
Well, I've never been turned on by anyone, as it were. My standards in terms of looks are simply WAY too high for me to ever get into a relationship with anyone based on looks. As in, I'd say a certain person is ugly or only average when the majority of the population thinks he/she is incredibly hot. Talking about celebrities btw.
Anyway I'm 18 - gonna be 19 in less than a month - and I've only ever loved 2 guys - out of which only one of whom I'm actually physically attracted to as well, and the physical attraction only came after we started to go out.
So no, I suppose it's not exactly abnormal. It's best to date people you're already friends with anyway, so you already trust each other and all. Besides, you end up liking the person's looks once you start properly liking them anyway.
Anyway I'm 18 - gonna be 19 in less than a month - and I've only ever loved 2 guys - out of which only one of whom I'm actually physically attracted to as well, and the physical attraction only came after we started to go out.
So no, I suppose it's not exactly abnormal. It's best to date people you're already friends with anyway, so you already trust each other and all. Besides, you end up liking the person's looks once you start properly liking them anyway.
To the OP - I've often wondered if I have a problem in that dept too. I'm also female, but don't really get excited by the thought of either sex. I have a boyfriend, but I really see him as more of a friend than anything else...strange I know...
Anonymous
neither do girls or people, Ive always been like this is there something wrong with me? The only thing that gets me excited are strange things like the thought of being caned etc. Im not looking for sex chat I just wanted to know if im abnormal, different or something? Im 21 and female, still virgin Id rather have a bf than not have one though (I think).
Id rather have a bf than not have one though (I think).Doesn't mean much. When it comes down to it I get the impression that most people form their preferences based on social conditioning anyway. If you haven't been socially driven by your friends into looking for guys then you'll feel that way. Humans are (surprisingly) flexible in what they like/dislike. You can take that as a positive thing, as it allows you to decide exactly what type of guy you like and why you do so, rather than have your friends decide it for you.
I think some people just have very low sex drives. I read an article once about people who describe themselves as 'asexual' and have no inclination towards sexual relations whatsoever. This is obviously not the case of the OP, who sounds to me like she has a fetish. I'm just pointig out that there is no such thing as normal when it comes to sexual behaviuor. Everyone is different. OP - I think you need to find a perosn you care about and trust and who is willing to indulge you! I'm sure you will find someone one day - just not this married guy; that's never a good idea.
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Anonymous
neither do girls or people, Ive always been like this is there something wrong with me? The only thing that gets me excited are strange things like the thought of being caned etc. Im not looking for sex chat I just wanted to know if im abnormal, different or something? Im 21 and female, still virgin Id rather have a bf than not have one though (I think).
Id rather have a bf than not have one though (I think).Train your dog to weild a cane. See what that does for you..
Anonymous
The only thing that gets me excited are strange things like the thought of being caned etc.
You are a pervert.
To whoever who neg-repped me - sorry if I offended you, but I simply don't easily find people physically attractive. Why is that wrong? You're calling me judgemental, so you're not being judgemental when you've never seen what I look like? I wrote no attack on anyone.
Anyway, I wish to be on good terms with people. If I was offensive, well, sorry, but I can't help it if my standards are high.
Anyway, I wish to be on good terms with people. If I was offensive, well, sorry, but I can't help it if my standards are high.
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