Just another pregnancy question...

Can u get pregnant if.... U have it unprotected by accident for around 3- 5 mins, he doesnt come but u do and then u stop right away. Im 4 days late.

Reply 1

pink_lucie

14

yes you can, theres something called pre-cum.go get a pregnacy test.

Reply 2

lovelee-jublee

12

I'd imagine the chances would be very slim as he hasn't ejaculated, but there is still a chance if he pre-ejaculated... I think it's a very slim chance, but take a test just to be sure.

Reply 3

Elusive Moose

1

There is a small chance because of pre-cum, yes. However if you were worrying about there's a chance that the stress is the reason for your late period. I'd agree with the others though- take a pregnancy test to put your mind at ease (though I don't think they're great until two weeks later so if it's been less than that you might want to take another one later if your period still doesn't come)

Reply 4

1013

1

Chances are minimal but still there. After this scare, go on the Pill.

Reply 5

Glory

1

I wonder how you managed to have it unprotected. Got carried away or didnt notice he hadnt put a condom on?

Anyway i agree with the other posters. Get a test put your mind at ease. You period hasnt come because your probabily worrying about nothing. Just get that peace of mind you deserve and get an answer either way. Also go see the doctor and get a secondary backup method of contraception to prevent any accidents.

Reply 6

MissHero

1

How can it be an accident for 3-5 minutes? He can't be up to much if it took you that long to realise!

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

MissHero

How can it be an accident for 3-5 minutes? He can't be up to much if it took you that long to realise!

Ok, maybe i over exaggerated. I dont know how long it was but definately not more than 5 mins.

1013

Chances are minimal but still there. After this scare, go on the Pill.

But i heard that the pill is dangerous... it messes up ur cycle and may stop u from having a baby in the future.

Reply 8

Mrs_F

15

Anonymous

But i heard that the pill is dangerous... it messes up ur cycle and may stop u from having a baby in the future.

The pill makes your cycle regular. A lot of girls go on the pill to sort out irregular periods.

I don't know about the stopping you becoming pregnant in the future, but if that's true then it must be a very small risk, otherwise doctors would be more reluctant to prescribe the pill. I'm sure that they would have to tell you that as well and I was never told that it might prevent me from having a child in the future.

You are best off discussing it with your doctor, he will tell you everything you need to know and give you the right contraception method to suit your own needs.

Oh and get a pregnancy test to put your mind at ease.

Reply 9

Glory

1

Taking the pill for too long as in terms of over 15 years can reduce your fetility(sp). But the doctors would take you off the pill long before that came an issue. There are alternatives which dont have the reduced fetitiy after long term use.

Go to the doctors and raise your issues, dont listen to hearsay. Get a profesional opinion. Your friends or whoever gave you advice about saying it will make you unable to have a baby, arn't trained to say that and are probabily scare mongering because of their morales or opinions.

Reply 10

Talya

16

Anonymous

But i heard that the pill is dangerous... it messes up ur cycle and may stop u from having a baby in the future.

That's crap... full stop. Who told you that? Go and slap them.

Reply 11

lilmissnaughty

pill is only a problem if you have regular migranes / poor circulation, thats y they wouldnt give it me till i got that sorted.

xx

How the hell do you have sex accidently / without noticing for 5 minutes???!!

Reply 12

username47781

20

yeah gonna say you can't have it accidently, and yes you could be pregnant it's unlikely but it can happen, take a test or if its not too late get the morning after pill

Reply 13

shady lane

16

Anonymous

Ok, maybe i over exaggerated. I dont know how long it was but definately not more than 5 mins.

But i heard that the pill is dangerous... it messes up ur cycle and may stop u from having a baby in the future.

Actually I read a study that women who have been on the Pill for a just a few years are more likely than women who haven't to get pregnant.

Reply 14

Sianey

If you're that badly informed about contraception I'm not sure you should be having sex.

Reply 15

Sophie01

Sianey

If you're that badly informed about contraception I'm not sure you should be having sex.

That made me laugh... :biggrin:

so understanding, but perhaps kind of true?

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

OP

Ok people.... I just did a pregnancy test (i used one called first response) and it was negative. But its only been 6 days since the incident so should i really be relying on this?

And sorry about my comment about the pill, its just that most young girls in my family who are now married are finding it very difficult to have a baby, and my mum keeps telling me its because they used pills. she doesnt know im having sex and would kill me if i found out (ok, killing me is just a figure of speech but u know what i mean). thats why i got confused.

Reply 17

shady lane

16

Anonymous

Ok people.... I just did a pregnancy test (i used one called first response) and it was negative. But its only been 6 days since the incident so should i really be relying on this?

And sorry about my comment about the pill, its just that most young girls in my family who are now married are finding it very difficult to have a baby, and my mum keeps telling me its because they used pills. she doesnt know im having sex and would kill me if i found out (ok, killing me is just a figure of speech but u know what i mean). thats why i got confused.

She's probably just saying that so you won't take the Pill and start having sex.
Also why are young girls in your family married?

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

OP

shady lane

She's probably just saying that so you won't take the Pill and start having sex.
Also why are young girls in your family married?

Because in my family, girls need to marry at around the age of 21. I dont know why, i personally think its stupid.

Also, the test came out negative but its only been 6 days since the unprotected incident happened so is there still a chance that im pregnant? he didnt come inside me but i did come...but it only lasted for a little while...hes claiming that he didnt pre come as well. im just so scared coz my period is 4 days late.

Reply 19

Glory

1

Anonymous

Ok people.... I just did a pregnancy test (i used one called first response) and it was negative. But its only been 6 days since the incident so should i really be relying on this?

And sorry about my comment about the pill, its just that most young girls in my family who are now married are finding it very difficult to have a baby, and my mum keeps telling me its because they used pills. she doesnt know im having sex and would kill me if i found out (ok, killing me is just a figure of speech but u know what i mean). thats why i got confused.

Thats a classic case of i dont want you going on the pill on the hope you wont have sex. The fact some of the girls in your family could be having problems concieving is they may still be using condoms, but telling you mum there trying to try and shut her up. Or they may just have unrelated fertity problems, its not for her to diagnose their problems its for the doctors.

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