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Thing size, Getting it up and relaxing
Basically my problem is i am 4.5 inches, and i know its not tiny but it is no way near big! I find it hard to relax as a person and get anxious very easily. I tend to get many women due to my good looks but i am always embarrased by my size so refuse to go far too soon and find it hard to get it up sometimes, bacause im constantly thinking what is on her mind, like will she find it big enough
I dont want this to turn into a debate about penis size, as we have established size isnt the most important thing, but generally women dont want their guy to have a huge dick but average and above is always on their mind (and dont say it isnt), can any girls and guys give me a confidence booster and any tips on how to relax and appreciate my equipment. I mean im in need of desperate help, cant relax at all and always thinking she will be a size queen!!
I dont want this to turn into a debate about penis size, as we have established size isnt the most important thing, but generally women dont want their guy to have a huge dick but average and above is always on their mind (and dont say it isnt), can any girls and guys give me a confidence booster and any tips on how to relax and appreciate my equipment. I mean im in need of desperate help, cant relax at all and always thinking she will be a size queen!!
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Solution: Don't try to score with random women. Find one particular young lady who is kind and supportive. Persue relationship with said woman. Sleep with said woman when time is right, knowing full well that because you are both very comfortable with each other something like penis size wont matter in the slightest.
I've only slept with one person and neither of us had experience of anyone else, so I can't really generalise (as any girl that's had previous experience may have laughed her head off) but...
I'm about the same length as you, I suppose. I was ****ing worried about letting her go near it at first because it doesn't exactly have the biggest girth either.
But then, just as it got hornier and we were getting deeper into the relationship, I thought 'screw it, she's my girlfriend and even if she does laugh out loud, sex isn't the basis of our relationship so even if it doesn't please her perfectly, it should at least please her'. And that it did. Perfectly as it could.
Don't worry about it. Just don't go around shagging random girls anyway, there's no point.
I'm about the same length as you, I suppose. I was ****ing worried about letting her go near it at first because it doesn't exactly have the biggest girth either.
But then, just as it got hornier and we were getting deeper into the relationship, I thought 'screw it, she's my girlfriend and even if she does laugh out loud, sex isn't the basis of our relationship so even if it doesn't please her perfectly, it should at least please her'. And that it did. Perfectly as it could.
Don't worry about it. Just don't go around shagging random girls anyway, there's no point.
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Basically my problem is i am 4.5 inches, and i know its not tiny but it is no way near big! I find it hard to relax as a person and get anxious very easily. I tend to get many women due to my good looks but i am always embarrased by my size so refuse to go far too soon and find it hard to get it up sometimes, bacause im constantly thinking what is on her mind, like will she find it big enough
I dont want this to turn into a debate about penis size, as we have established size isnt the most important thing, but generally women dont want their guy to have a huge dick but average and above is always on their mind (and dont say it isnt), can any girls and guys give me a confidence booster and any tips on how to relax and appreciate my equipment. I mean im in need of desperate help, cant relax at all and always thinking she will be a size queen!!
I dont want this to turn into a debate about penis size, as we have established size isnt the most important thing, but generally women dont want their guy to have a huge dick but average and above is always on their mind (and dont say it isnt), can any girls and guys give me a confidence booster and any tips on how to relax and appreciate my equipment. I mean im in need of desperate help, cant relax at all and always thinking she will be a size queen!!
Perhaps if you don't call it your 'equipment' then you will not feel as bad, because you will not see it as the fundamental 'tool' during sex, which it does not need to be. The average size in the UK is 5", so you are not far off, so just calm down and remember that there will be a couple of million guys out there across Britain who have smaller dicks to contend with.
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Solution: Don't try to score with random women. Find one particular young lady who is kind and supportive. Persue relationship with said woman. Sleep with said woman when time is right, knowing full well that because you are both very comfortable with each other something like penis size wont matter in the slightest.
I dony try and score with random women all the time, but the women i end up with are normally the forward type.
Oh and im also tall and have big feet, and feel even more uncomfortable when women say that!
Women are hard to read lol, you dont really know wether theyre enjoying it! Any tips on relaxing?
Anonymous
Women are hard to read lol, you dont really know wether theyre enjoying it! Any tips on relaxing?
Slighty different since im female, but i have issues relaxing too, i end up not being able to breathe. Maybe remember to breathe and taking slow deep breaths may help. Im trying to regulate my breathing on the hope it will relax me.
The smallest dick on record is half an inch.
Anonymous
Women are hard to read lol, you dont really know wether theyre enjoying it! Any tips on relaxing?
Dont **** and youll get a boner off anything.
Anonymous
Dont **** and youll get a boner off anything.
haha good advice! Im not even in the mood to do that atm, think i might just need to take a few days to relax etc. i seem to be v. stressed
The G-Spot is, apparently, at the front of the vaginal wall and about 2 inches in, if I remember correctly. Also, only the first two inches of the vagina are actually sensitive, so if anythign you're luckier. Without being too graphic, you're going to spend more time in contact with the sensitive bits so all the better for her! 
Women only need about 3.5 inches to feel pleasure, fact , How big do you think the hole is! Lol, hehe
, How big do you think the hole is! Lol, hehe 
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