Right well this will probably be long, complicated and boring.
Right well basically i used to work with this girl, and i have since left. We were really good friends, and still are. After i left, we've been 'out' a few times as friends. When i say out i mean to the cinema and stuff. Now I dunno but we've grown closer, and I cant work out whether theres anything there. I guess i like her and she may (or may not) like me. I mean we spend quite a lot of time together for just being friends (my m8s always think theres something going on when i tell them we're going to the cinema). Last week i was feeling down and txt her, and she was like what do u wana do. So we just met up on a spur of the moment thing, it was fun and made me think i guess.
Problem is, i know she's the shy type when it comes to guys, secondly theres no way of working out whether she likes me/letting her know i like her without messing up the friendship and thirdly, becuz we're such good friends, i see no way of moving further.
To add to the mix, she's in the year above. Basically what im saying is how do i find out if theres anything 'there' without doing anything to jeopardise our friendship - its weird i just like hanging out with her.
Sorry for the long post