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Should we still go out with eachother?

Im a guy who likes to keep in contact with my g/f atleast once in a day and likes to know how she is and just keep in regular contact.
I have been dating for the past 3 months. Originally my g/f used to contact me constantly throughout the day but after the 1st month she cut down.
She normally text me or calls me but last 2 weeks I have to do call her to get through to her.
If she feels ok to keep in contact now and again and where as with me everyday, we obviously have two very different views on relationships.

Do you think this relationship is worth it ?
Reply 1
Anonymous
Im a guy who likes to keep in contact with my g/f atleast once in a day and likes to know how she is and just keep in regular contact.
I have been dating for the past 3 months. Originally my g/f used to contact me constantly throughout the day but after the 1st month she cut down.
She normally text me or calls me but last 2 weeks I have to do call her to get through to her.
If she feels ok to keep in contact now and again and where as with me everyday, we obviously have two very different views on relationships.

Do you think this relationship is worth it ?


Maybe she can't spend so much on credit? Do you still see each other often and enjoy each other's company? Sometimes I felt that my ex was stifled by me calling/texting a lot because she didn't text back, but then she said she was out of credit and just couldn't reply and that she liked reading the random texts and felt bad that she didn't reply because she couldn't. Maybe it's just the same with your girlfriend?
Reply 2
Andy Spark
Maybe she can't spend so much on credit? Do you still see each other often and enjoy each other's company? Sometimes I felt that my ex was stifled by me calling/texting a lot because she didn't text back, but then she said she was out of credit and just couldn't reply and that she liked reading the random texts and felt bad that she didn't reply because she couldn't. Maybe it's just the same with your girlfriend?


LoL she doesnt call as I do the calling, she normally asks me to call her by text but shes just too busy even for a 5min call now.
dont call everyday, it comes across as needy. only call when you need to.
Reply 4
it is nice to hear from your boyfriend everyday but it can get annoying as i found. maybe just leave the calls for a couple of days and see if she notices the lack of attention she's receiving and she may even call you for a chat..
If I understand you right... you think you have hugely different views on relationships because you want to talk every day and she wants to talk every other day?

Yes, that's how silly it sounds to me too.