hard to talk :(

hi, iv bin chattin to a girl for bout 6mnths, n at the beginnin, it was real gud, n we'd hav no probs talking 4 like up 2 two-three hrs, but lately, its just bin real hard to keep the convo flowing, there wud be awkwrd silences sumtimes.

we both really like each other n go out on dates n stuff. mayb im overthinkin my way thru the convo, but its really annoyin, n i dno wat to do. it started off real easy, n now its kinda hard :frown:

ne advice would be great, and i dno, if someone could perhaps put some potential convo topics that i cud take a swing at would be brill :confused:

thanksa bunch :biggrin:

Reply 1

Dez

I hope you speak better than you type.

There's such a thing as talking too much, you know. If you're chatting consitently for six months eventually you're going to run out of conversation topics. I suggest you try concentrate on other things.

Reply 2

generalebriety

Probably because when you meet new people you're more interested because there's more to find out about them, but once you get to know them there's gradually less and less you can find out. Just talk about things that have happened - "hey remember when...?" or things you'd like to do, or suggest going out somewhere and then talk about that, or something like that. Bitching about people always keeps people going for a while. :biggrin:

Reply 3

mipmapped

You know you're close when the silences aren't awkward.