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Jekyll & Hyde

Do forgive the anonymous for i'm not sure if this could be read by the person. So here's the story; it's girl-related.

My sister has a friend. She's really nice, very friendly and she has a nice laugh, smile etc. everything i look for. My sister's probably been friendly with her about 13 years now and she lives not far from me. I've asked my sister before about her friend and expressed a liking for her and my sister told me not to go there and has called her friend a bit of a "man-eater". So she was off-limits to me then.

I was out with my sister and her friend and i was just chatting with her friend and we were talking alone about some food and she said she'd love to go to this restaurant but no-one will take her. I was so tempted to offer to go with her but i remembered my sister said not to bother. I spoke with my sister later on and she said her friend told her i was a "dude" and my sister said to me that it looked like we were quite friendly - her friend complimented me on my haircut the other day too. My sister gave me permission to go out with her friend.

Great i thought, but now i don't see the girl as she's only with my sister who's not here now. I asked my sister to tell her friend i liked her (i saw no other way) anyway she never did.

Here's the thing i can't understand: she's such a nice girl, but she goes out with a couple of guys at the same time. Not as in proper relationship but she's been seeing one guy for 3-4 months and seen him as many times and he hardly calls/texts - so not in a relationship. At the same time as this, she does similar with another guy.

So i don't know what to think. I don't want to be played and my sister changes her story from her friend likes one of the guys she is seeing to she doesn't want her friend to be mean to me; i'm quite sensitive and very naive when it comes to relationships as i have little experience in them.

So either i leave it completely, send her a message on myspace perhaps or hope to bump into her and take it from there.

Thanks for reading all of this if you made it here and i hope i can get some good sugggestions as my head is spinning.

Reply 1

sweetface.

Wait is your sister's firend older/younger or the same age as you?

Reply 2

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Lyndzxx

Wait is your sister's firend older/younger or the same age as you?

She's younger than me. I just turned 21 and she's 19.

Reply 3

sweetface.

Oh okay, well to be honest if i were you i would not try to get involed with your sisters firend. It could end up in with you losing your sister.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

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It's not losing my sister that crossed my mind as that's a bit extreme. I just don't want to ruin their friendship of 13 years, and if something bad happened it could be slightly awkward if her friend is around here and i'm here and there'll be tension.

If it went well i don't want my sister knowing certain things about me. Either way it's lose-lose :frown:

I always just go for the wrong ones.

Reply 5

banksy

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For a moment there i thought this was a post on loving ones sister. Basically you can't do anything about it unless you can contact her. If you can't comment on her myspace or whatever, then it's time to move on. Life's too short and there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Reply 6

Amnesia

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To be honest she seems like a bit more trouble than she's worth. Personally, I would probably look elsewhere- as someone else said there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Reply 7

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banksy

For a moment there i thought this was a post on loving ones sister. Basically you can't do anything about it unless you can contact her. If you can't comment on her myspace or whatever, then it's time to move on. Life's too short and there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Wow....that would have been interesting. I can send her a message on myspace; she hasn't added me, but i know her page. (But this may seem a bit weird that i know perhaps? It's just her name).

I just have a habit of going for the un-obtainable. Saw someone the other night but i was a bit shallow and have eyes for only one person at the moment :rolleyes:

I agree with everything that's been said; just for some reason i keep contemplating it as she's such a nice person when i've seen her. It sounds like she has two personas.

Reply 8

sweetface.

Anonymous

I just have a habit of going for the un-obtainable. Saw someone the other night but i was a bit shallow and have eyes for only one person at the moment :rolleyes:

Yes, that might be the case but don't get to attached to her. Why don't you keep your options open? This other girl she could have been really nice.

Reply 9

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Lyndzxx

Yes, that might be the case but don't get to attached to her. Why don't you keep your options open? This other girl she could have been really nice.

My options are very open :p:

She could have been really nice but i was feeling shy and i can't speak at the moment and i'm making excuses here :p:

If it's meant to be it's meant to be. But as for the first girl i think i'll just have to take the advice and myself the trouble. It's probably more harm than good as nice a girl as she is.

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