he hasnt got a clue

ok basically i have a friend who is slightly clueless.
he has been going out with this girl for nearly a week but is pushing all his friends away and ignoring them. he has done this before.

so i confronted him about it and he is now dumping his girlfriend to keep his friends so either way he is pushing people away and he cant seem to grasp the concept of balancing friends and girlfriends.

ive told him that im not helping him with his problems any more cause hes done it loads of times. should i give him another chance or not.

Reply 1

BlackHawk

Course you should. He's your mate. That means forgiving him for his trivial little mistakes. Show him how to make the balance.

Reply 2

Bunny Boiler

Well firstly he is male so he will be a bit clueless...

It's not common for Men to be 'Clueful' which is not a word but hey...

And if he can't do then leave him...he'll end with no friends if he keeps choosing his GF over them and he'll end up single if he chooses his friends over his GF if he can't find the balance he'll suffer...

Don't help him if he won't help himself...

=) Leave him to it...

Reply 3

aurion

BlackHawk

Course you should. He's your mate. That means forgiving him for his trivial little mistakes. Show him how to make the balance.

i know hes my mate but he makes all of his own problems and if someone one even criticises him in the slightest he blows it all out of proportion and makes stupid descisions like dumping his girlfriend i have helped his with more problems than any other of my friends and i have known him for less time than anyone.

he is just so annoying and attention seeking.

Reply 4

AndySoOoOoN

If hes your mate you should help him.... What is the MASSIVE problem guna drain all your time? I doubt it.

By the way your talking about him it sounds asif you dont even like him.

Reply 5

username47781

Well i kinda pushed alot of my friends away when i went out with my ex about 3 years go mind you that was because she put me under alot of pressure and also cuz she went through my emails. I think also you need an understanding girlfriend who doesn't mind you spending some time with your friends.