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Freaked Out =(

Okay so there's like this girl who won't stop telling me how much she likes me...

she keeps telling me that she can't stop thinking about me she can't stop staring at me and she's always around me...

She's annoying me and i'm gay so she's fighting a losing battle...

She's freaking me out she's becoming obsessed...

Help

Reply 1

aurion

perhaps the only way to get rid of her is to kiss a guy in front of her then she will get the message

Reply 2

Bunny Boiler

She'll still deny i'm gay...

She'll say i'm bi...

ha

Reply 3

Bubblebee

Bump her off... I'd do it for £10,000...

Reply 4

Bunny Boiler

It's deal...

When can you do it?

=)

But really...

I should just tell her shouldn 't I?

Reply 5

=Keith=

Be a gentleman dude, go talk to her politely. She likes you so do think bout her feelings. Handle this carefully

Reply 6

fat_hobbit

:DWoah-me-god:)

It's deal...

When can you do it?

=)

But really...

I should just tell her shouldn 't I?

Just tell her that you dont fancy her. At least that way she knows where she stands. Also, like the other guy said ^^, be gentle and tell her that you would still like to to be friends with her.

Reply 7

kizer

Just tell her you're gay. Most people have to lie about that to fob someone off, you're lucky it's the truth!

Reply 8

AndySoOoOoN

Just shag her, you might enjoy it!

Reply 9

Crazster

Talk to her, in a public place, gently.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

Send her this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=im7IorDZ9uY&search=stalker

Reply 11

fat_hobbit

Anonymous

Send her this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=im7IorDZ9uY&search=stalker

lmfao that is jokes.

Reply 12

khil

Anonymous

Send her this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=im7IorDZ9uY&search=stalker

I don't really think anyone deserves to have such a rude video sent to them. Stalker or not, they still have feelings, especially girls as they tend to be more sensitive.

Besides, if the person really is a psycho, sending them something like this may well anger them and then who knows what they'll do? And if the person is just a little obsessed but a normal individual, then there's no need for such a video.

Reply 13

Clarence

Explain to her that you are not a lesbian and that not in a million years would you consider going out with her.....should do the trick. Bite the bullet and go for it.

Reply 14

generalebriety

irisng

especially girls as they tend to be more sensitive.

(sigh)

OP: does she not know you're gay, or does she just deny it? :confused:

Tell her firmly that you're not interested. If she persists, tell her to **** off. If a gay guy started coming on to a straight guy, he'd get smacked for it - this situation is no different, so treat it the same. Don't smack her ( :smile:

), just let her know you're not going to be all nice and fluffy about the situation (or change your sexuality for her, attractive as she may be :biggrin:

). Hard as it is, she needs to learn to control her emotions and not to go into denial when you tell her you are not interested. The nicer you are to her, the more she'll think you're interested but don't want to admit it to her (which is why you're being nice, etc.).

Clarence

Explain to her that you are not a lesbian and that not in a million years would you consider going out with her.....should do the trick. Bite the bullet and go for it.