First love and far away

okay i just want to get some opinions and advice because im more concerned than him
last december we had some visitors over from the america, one of them was a guy who had liked me however i had no clue about, we got to know each other very well in that 2 weeks we spent together and when they went back he mailed me, i was shocked to see it and we carried on mailing each other. he then one day told me that he likes me and if i feel the same way about him, now the only problem is that because he live so far away our mails and conversations are so plain, theres no life, i really like him and i want this realtionship to last however we have the same converstions everyday and im concerned that he may start to feel bored and there could be a chance of a break up,
all i want is some is some advice on how we can "jazz" the convo's up
thanks everyone :smile:

Reply 1

randum_nandom

"jazz" up well why dont you ask him to question u about things??

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

thanks but what kind of questions?
sorry if im sounding like a dummy but i am really confused

Reply 3

Philosophia

To be honest hon, I think branding this guy as your 'first love' is a bit too forward, and may get you attached. If you genuinely believe he is, then you may find it difficult to pursue a relationship because of the distance.

However, it doesn't outrule that you can be friends, and then go from there. Why don't you jazz up the mail messages by taking it turn to ask each other five questions, like a game? Perhaps 5 on attitudes to love, life, partying, friends etc? Then you can really find out if this guy is for you. Good Luck.