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Broke The Trust & Now The Relationship..?

The relationship me and my g/f was very complicated. Allot of issues involving many guys, which lead to me going behind my g/f's back and indirectly asking one of her guy mates from a fake msn account exactly what was going on. She is close to this guy and has also been telling him stuff. She wasnt cheating one me but without going into much detail I was second priority.
Any how I broke her trust and yesterday she couldnt tell me where we stood any more. We was going to discuss it propperly last night but she had to pack. She texted me last night saying we will discuss it tommorow morning.

I've called over 5 times and texted 3 times this morning and shes rejecting my calls and not replying to my texts.

Should I just forget about her?
I think she should forget about you.
Reply 2
Anonymous
I think she should forget about you.

If you knew half of it, you would think again.
I think maybe you should keep trying to get a hold of her, and tell her you are sorry, and you should have trusted her, but you felt insecure. If you get another chance with her, make sure you two COMMUNICATE. Talk to each other, make sure she knows you want to be her first priority.
good luck =]
Reply 4
Anonymous
If you knew half of it, you would think again.



Have you confronted her with what she's done? If she knows you know what she's done, but isn't regretting it at all, then there's no hope.
Reply 5
Well we don't know the half of it, do we? All we know is what you tell us. So, from what you've told us it sounds as though you both have a lot of work to put in if you want the relationship to work. Relationships cannot survive without trust and it seems to be missing from both of you.
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