Hey Tolu,
I echo some of the others posters, it would be good to hear what sort of business it is you are looking at starting.
I would like to just weigh in with my 2c, and I apologies for the length of this post in advance. I know exactly how you feel, I spent my entire teen years coming up with various business ideas and ways to reinvent certain industries. I admit, a lot of the ideas that I came up with at the time would be seen by many as insane and it is for that reason that I didn't disclose my entrepreneurial bug to my friends and family.
It wasn't until I got to the point in my life that I had to make the decision between university or work that I sat down to evaluate what it was I actually wanted to gain. I fretted between the idea of working for myself and a degree for a good year before I finally made my decision.
After completing my UCAS application to head off to university, I saw with my finger on the button to send my application. But I couldn't do it, I complete withdrew my application that I had been working on for months. I let a lot of people in my family down, who had hoped I would be the first of us to go to university but I knew I would gain more experience from working.
I went through various jobs from retail to working in Ibiza for part of the season, giving me plenty of experience with different environments. When I returned from my semi season in Ibiza, I was unemployed for around 4 months. Rather than spend this time doing nothing, I started working on one business idea that I had developed a true passion for. My mum quickly noticed a change in my character, I became more determined to succeed, so she confronted me about what I was actually doing. This was the first time I had sat down with her to discuss my desire to pursue a lifestyle as an entrepreneur.
She told me I was crazy and that I should focus on getting a real job and this was a real set back for me. Like you, I just wanted to support of my family behind me. So I went and got myself a job working in a telephone office so I had my own income coming in, but I wanted to succeed so much more now to give my mum a reason to be proud of me.
I worked away on a business plan for this venture for months, whilst I worked at the phone office and it in March last year I took the biggest step of my life by putting myself out there. I identified a company that I wanted to work with to launch this new venture as they shared a similar ethos to me and it seemed like the ideal fit. So I stalked the CEO of the company down on LinkedIn and Twitter and sent him a message asking to get his thoughts on my business plan and the venture in general.
A few days later, I was actively chatting to this gentleman through E-mail and Twitter, and I could tell he had some interest in the proposal. So I suggested setting up a meeting for us to chat about it in more depth, to which he agreed to do with his equal business partner. A month or so passed and I found myself embarking on a mammoth road trip to drive from Sussex to Manchester to meet with these two guys to discuss a project I had been working on in my bedroom for months beforehand.
I honestly didn't know what to expect, I was so naive to the concept of business at this point. But the guys were impressed and agreed with me to launch this new venture with me. I was overjoyed, so naturally the first thing I wanted to do was share my happiness with my family. Needless to say they were not as keen on the project as I, as it involved me leaving a well paid job at home with the support of my family and moving to a city the other side of the country where I knew nobody.
The day soon came around that I left my old job and the next morning I found myself on a coach at Gatwick Airport with my mum in floods of tears ready to leave for Manchester. It was that moment that she told me she was proud of the decision I had made and that my future was now all in my own hands.
So where do I find myself today? Well, my venture is now a reality. I work for one of the most exciting and ambitious 18-30 year old events and travel company, I have the opportunity to do things that 12 months ago I would have never even dreamed possible and I have the full backing and support of my family and friends that had not long ago doubted my ambitions and dreams.
I hope that this post helps you out greatly, everything you want to do in your life is in your hands. Nobody is going to come and hand you your business, you have to work tirelessly to achieve your ambitions. You need to put yourself out there and you need to have a clear vision of what your personal goals are. Why do you want to be an entrepreneur? Is it to be wealthy rich or knowledge rich? My personal answer is a mixture of the two, I am incredible fortunate to be doing what I love and to be able to make a living from that is the icing on the cake.
If I can offer you any more help or tips, feel free to drop me a private message. All the best with your future, I hope it is bright for you