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help! arguing with bf after a peaceful month
My relationship with my bf goes in phases - like every relationship, I guess - we have phases that are a couple months long, always (friendly ones, horny ones, deep-love ones, argumentative ones).The problem is that he always starts picking arguments, starts finding faults in our relationship after a period of peace and love. He just seems not to be comfortable with having a nearly-ideal relationship and comes up with vague imperfections that he needs to talk to me about. Then we talk, argue and enter a new argumentative stage. He often admits that he was wrong with whichever argument he made first, but what's done is done. It's a circle and I know he loves me, but I'd really love him to stop being worried about having a GOOD phase all the time.
Thanks xoxo
Thanks xoxo
Reply 1
Sounds like a normal relationship to me.
Reply 2
hey...
i have to admit, i used to do that to my bf (i'd like to think i don't do it anymore)...
i think i just wanted things to be absolutely perfect, and also do be honest, i find arguing (little ones) makes you not take people for granted and i find it a bit boring if it's plain sailing all the time. sorry!!
i have to admit, i used to do that to my bf (i'd like to think i don't do it anymore)...
i think i just wanted things to be absolutely perfect, and also do be honest, i find arguing (little ones) makes you not take people for granted and i find it a bit boring if it's plain sailing all the time. sorry!!
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