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    Well basically we stopped talking because he is a proper ego booster and mocks me when where with other people. But when were on our own he talks normaly but is really gay/flirt. I told him several times to stop but he doesnt. So i have had enough of him taking the piss out of me in front of everyone. He is also so annoying asking me where I am and demanding to know who im with. So i stopped talking to him. Ive have told him to many times that he annoys me but her still carries on. So the time has come to move on. But after arguing to him to leave me alone he tells me he's really gay :eek:. And he loves me and cant let go. Since we knew each other for some time he knows, some family things about me and he's says he gna tell everyone which will be a big thing on my side.

    He just wont stop all his messages and stuff he's even talking to some of my friends who are freaked out because they dont know him. I was thinking of fighting as im so angry with him but he just wants a reaction tho. So should I ignore him.

    What can I do ??
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    Yeah just don't rise to it, he'll get bored and move on


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    Well basically we stopped talking because he is a proper ego booster and mocks me when where with other people. But when were on our own he talks normaly but is really gay/flirt. I told him several times to stop but he doesnt. So i have had enough of him taking the piss out of me in front of everyone. He is also so annoying asking me where I am and demanding to know who im with. So i stopped talking to him. Ive have told him to many times that he annoys me but her still carries on. So the time has come to move on. But after arguing to him to leave me alone he tells me he's really gay :eek:. And he loves me and cant let go. Since we knew each other for some time he knows, some family things about me and he's says he gna tell everyone which will be a big thing on my side.

    He just wont stop all his messages and stuff he's even talking to some of my friends who are freaked out because they dont know him. I was thinking of fighting as im so angry with him but he just wants a reaction tho. So should I ignore him.

    What can I do ??

    tell him you are not gay and that you love him as a brother
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    You need to just ignore him, people like that will get the message (eventually) you've already told him countless times so there is no other option.

    Also about the personal stuff he said he is going to spread - he is not a real friend, and is trying to blackmail you. Chances are he probably won't tell anyone anything but if he does guess what? He's going to look like the idiot for spreading personal things about his so called 'friend'.

    Tell your friends to just ignore him and how is he talking to them? Facebook/phone - just let them block him if needs be.

    Sounds like a weirdo to be honest. Not nice having someone who is supposed to be a friend and just mocks you…especially in front of other people. Maybe he's insecure or just rude/obnoxious.

    Good Luck
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    (Original post by IMBCFC)
    Well basically we stopped talking because he is a proper ego booster and mocks me when where with other people. But when were on our own he talks normaly but is really gay/flirt. I told him several times to stop but he doesnt. So i have had enough of him taking the piss out of me in front of everyone. He is also so annoying asking me where I am and demanding to know who im with. So i stopped talking to him. Ive have told him to many times that he annoys me but her still carries on. So the time has come to move on. But after arguing to him to leave me alone he tells me he's really gay :eek:. And he loves me and cant let go. Since we knew each other for some time he knows, some family things about me and he's says he gna tell everyone which will be a big thing on my side.

    He just wont stop all his messages and stuff he's even talking to some of my friends who are freaked out because they dont know him. I was thinking of fighting as im so angry with him but he just wants a reaction tho. So should I ignore him.

    What can I do ??
    :eek:

    There's a big difference between "loving someone" and "stalking them". He's clearly using his sexuality to harrass you. (I've got nothing against gays, I'm bi ). Do something to stop it. He shouldn't do that. I'd avoid him, if I were you. :flower2:
 
 
 
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