Ex-girlfriend tormenting me

i broke up 6-7 months ago and have had other stories...
but keeps sending me group e-mails about wonderful holidays with new boyfriend (and from her new bf's e-mail address, lol!)... letting her friends tell me how happy she is... marriage plans... as if I cared.
what else does she want from me? Does she want to teach me a lesson, or what?

Reply 1

Amnesia

You could be reading too much into the situation and she might not realise what she is doing, although if she is tormenting you on purpose the best thing you can do in the situation is to act as if you don't care and in fact pretend that you are happy for her. If you still see her be indifferent towards her and her friends. That way if she is tormenting you her plan will backfire and you could turn the tables on her. Show her that you are getting on with your life and don't care about what she is doing.

Reply 2

Andy Spark

I'm worried about the same happening to me in a few months - it's obvious that at some point my ex is gonna meet someone new and hit it off with them. It's crap and I really won't be ready for it however into the future it is. Am I happy being single? Yes - so long as she stays single too :p:

I doubt it's vindictive, malicious tormenting: it's a group email, she would obviously have your addy and probably just didn't delete it from the 'group' she was sending the email to.

Reply 3

hippieglitter

That really unfair of her, i broke up with my ex boyf 6/7 months ago and although i occasionally mention my new boyf i try not to talk about him too much cos i know my ex hasn't had another girlfirend since me and i don;t wann amke him feel bad. but i do feel its important to make it clear that although we are trying to be friends there is no chance of more than that. Maybe she is doing that but taking it a little too far.

Reply 4

zain88

maybe she thinks that you both are so over each other that you can talk openly about everything as friends. maybe she is treating you like any of her other friends.

or... maybe she is just trying to prove to you that she has moved on, maybe she is trying to make you jealous. there's so many possibilities whatever it is, it's not nice so tell her straight up you're not interested in her relationship with her bf.

did you ever cheat on her? or did you have a bad break up? do you still have feelings for her?