Si I'm dating a girl and she says she does not want to get married because she gets bored very quickly. 6 months ago she was all for mariage by a certain age.
Is this a major red flag? It tells me if we are serious, she will get bored regardless. Can't always go out having fun.
Your thoughts appreciated!
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- Thread Starter
- 21-01-2014 00:44
- 21-01-2014 00:51
Well 6 months is a bit early to be talking about marriage. At the same time, you should question her more on why she gets bored. Sounds like she might have commitment issues. You might get dicked around a bit if thats the case, but Im not sure what the dynamics of your relationship are. Maybe she's just going through a weird patch right now
- Thread Starter
- 21-01-2014 01:15
Well in the chats about dating itself and online dating (how we met), it came up. It was just to get our view, I've known her for just over a year, but 6 months ago, marriage was brought up,, not 6 months in (although it's equidistant either way, but you get what I mean).
She just claims she is messed up and wierd, another red flag?
Maybe commitment issues as she said it's hard for her to like someone.
- 21-01-2014 01:17
She will get bored and probably screw your friend...just kidding. Kinda.
- 21-01-2014 01:18
Sounds like two red flags. Number one dating rule, don't date girls who claim they're messed up: they probably are and you will only end up messed up yourself.
- 21-01-2014 01:26
She's a girl. She'll probably have a new opinion on the subject every other day.
I'm in a similar position -- well over a year ago I was all for marriage. In the last year I gave up on the idea of relationships (even while I was in them!) and managed to convince myself against the idea of marriage. Now all I want is a stable relationship that actually lasts longer than a month or two and I'm warming up to the idea of marriage again. This is a really common thing amongst many women. Don't give it a second thought. She might change her mind when she's feeling better about the idea of marriage.
- 21-01-2014 01:42
Yeah I went out with a girl who said she wanted to get married young then I think University and family issues completely changed her view.
I would say you shouldn't really think about marriage until a couple years into the relationship and you both have a kind of settled life i.e. enough to buy a house and 2 decent jobs. Unless you are both incredibly mature it won't work.
- 23-01-2014 03:15
Most people get married around late 20s to mid 30s even.