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does actions really speaks louder than words???? watch

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    There's this guy who treats me like a girlfriend, his actions shows that he likes me and of course im not just imagining it as alot of people have noticed too and have told me, but when the topic comes up he says he only sees me as a friend.

    He's very confusing. We hang out togeher, cinema, dinner or just drive around. Then he would suggest we go away for the weekend, and when i say yes he would back out and say there's no need to rush when it was his idea in the first place.

    He's been back and forth with me, which i dont understand because we've already made clear last month that we're just friends. But for some reason i feel like he's scared/worried to be alone with me although we've been away on holidays together and shared room.

    Could what happened at the start of friendship when he asked me if i thought i'd ever fall for him, i said i would never as I only see him as a friend have something to do with this actions?
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    Maybe by asking you if you want to go for a weekend away together etc he's testing to see how much you like him... Do you want to be more than friends?
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    Not really.. I'm happy being his friend because eventhough we had strong connection with each other we've sat down and clarify our roles in each other life just last month so thats why im confused.

    Thought relationship would be better and less confusing once we both agreed where we stand, which is we're just friends.

    But now it became weird, because I feel like its an effort for him to be just friends, like he's uncomfortable with the idea of me and him being away together. Although we still go movies, have food and hang out.

    I don't know.. a friend says that its probably because our minds told us to be just friends but our feelings really means something else... :/
 
 
 
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