Is this cheating? Does it make me a s.lut?

I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now, and things are going well.

Recently he went to Spain to visit his family for a few months, but we've kept in contact via Skype.

I thought I would never cheat in a relationship but I've been talking to this guy on my course recently, who I really want to sleep with. I did go on a few dates with him previously, but I went away so it didn't work out.

I've been talking to him while at uni, pretty sexual things, like joking about watching porn, being horny and flirting pretty outrageously...I want to sleep with him so bad, and I know he wants to as well, but I have a boyfriend.

Is this cheating (talking sexual with this guy)?

I know my current relationship has a time limit, latest September when we both go back home to different cities, so it won't be forever, but we are all on the same course and it would get very awkward if I slept with them both...

The thing is, I told my boyfriend that we'd been talking about sex and he said he doesn't mind, as we're friends and that whatever happen's we can sort it out. So I'm thinking It may be okay...

What should I do? If I do sleep with him, everyone will think I'm a slut...

dump your boyfriend instead of leading him on

I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now, and things are going well.

Recently he went to Spain to visit his family for a few months, but we've kept in contact via Skype.

I thought I would never cheat in a relationship but I've been talking to this guy on my course recently, who I really want to sleep with. I did go on a few dates with him previously, but I went away so it didn't work out.

I've been talking to him while at uni, pretty sexual things, like joking about watching porn, being horny and flirting pretty outrageously...I want to sleep with him so bad, and I know he wants to as well, but I have a boyfriend.

Is this cheating (talking sexual with this guy)?

I know my current relationship has a time limit, latest September when we both go back home to different cities, so it won't be forever, but we are all on the same course and it would get very awkward if I slept with them both...

The thing is, I told my boyfriend that we'd been talking about sex and he said he doesn't mind, as we're friends and that whatever happen's we can sort it out. So I'm thinking It may be okay...

What should I do? If I do sleep with him, everyone will think I'm a slut...

Ok well thanks for your opinion. However, if this was the other way around, would you still call a guy a slut? It's really annoying how men in their 20s can sleep around, and it's okay but if a girl does it she's a 'slut'. And like I said, I'm not lying as I told my boyfriend everything, but I'm still a slut because I enjoy casual sex? Why is that wrong?

At the end of the day, we are in our early 20s, and our relationship is going to end by September anyway.

I realise I asked for your opinions so fair enough, I'm just saying in this day and age, slut shaming is wrong. Call me a bad person if you think I'm a cheater (which I technically told my other half about, so i'm not lying) but not a slut.

Thanks for all the replies..

And as most people realise, men in their 20s usually cheat anyway. He even told me all men cheat, and I would rather him say that then tell me I'd never cheat in my life, and know it is a lie. We are both very honest, so if he were to do something, I know he'd tell me.

And I'm a slut because I'm a "cheat", or because I want to have sex? If it's because of cheating, then I would never go behind his back and lie, I would be honest and tell him and I know we would still be friends as our relationship isn't long term, and he knows we are both young.

But you're thinking of having sex with another guy while you are in a relationship.
You can use the 'slut shaming' argument all you want, but what you are doing is still wrong.

The girls usually call the guys out for this blooper, but I have to say, that is quite a grim generalisation that paints every single guy in a bad light. You can't justify the fact that you are bordering on emotional cheating (should you go any further whilst still in a long distance relationship) by thinking in that way.

Being young also isn't really a good excuse to justify bad behaviour & purposeful mistake making either. Call it off and let him be, if you've had a change of heart and wanna experiment.