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    Hey guys. Thank you for taking the time in reading my thread; I really appreciate it. To simplify your lives, I'll put it all in bullet points:

    1. I'm a guy, 22, bi, "love at first sight" happened to me when I saw this guy almost 2 years ago. Ever since, can't stop thinking about him.

    2. At first it was a crush until I became obsessed with him for some strange reason. I prayed he was gay or bi, and one day, my best friend Michelle told me he's gay (found out from his friends)

    3. I was happy of course, and he threw subtle hints that he might be interested on our first proper outing together 2 months ago...

    4. Problem is, he hardly leaves his room (yeah, he's one of those who study 24-7) Even his friends have problems with this, and while I admire him for that, I'm really annoyed that he doesn't go out much (How can I get to know him better then, right?)

    5. So we finally had a second proper outing (my birthday 2 days ago). We went to the movies later at night and I placed my hand on the stool near him, hoping he'd take it..

    6. And he did! We held hands till the movie was over. I felt like dying. I was so happy!!

    7. But after that, we didn't talk about it. I mean, we were both obviously shy I didnt even look at him in the eye, because I was so embarrassed!

    QUESTION: It's been 2 days now since the incident..My question is; how can I ask him out for a date? Or what can I tell him about that night without it being awkward? And are we even considered boyfriends or what? He definitely is interested though, and if we are, how do I tell him? Because apparently, we're both very new to dating. Yes, it's quite sad, I know.

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME GUYS!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hey guys. Thank you for taking the time in reading my thread; I really appreciate it. To simplify your lives, I'll put it all in bullet points:

    1. I'm a guy, 22, bi, "love at first sight" happened to me when I saw this guy almost 2 years ago. Ever since, can't stop thinking about him.

    2. At first it was a crush until I became obsessed with him for some strange reason. I prayed he was gay or bi, and one day, my best friend Michelle told me he's gay (found out from his friends)

    3. I was happy of course, and he threw subtle hints that he might be interested on our first proper outing together 2 months ago...

    4. Problem is, he hardly leaves his room (yeah, he's one of those who study 24-7) Even his friends have problems with this, and while I admire him for that, I'm really annoyed that he doesn't go out much (How can I get to know him better then, right?)

    5. So we finally had a second proper outing (my birthday 2 days ago). We went to the movies later at night and I placed my hand on the stool near him, hoping he'd take it..

    6. And he did! We held hands till the movie was over. I felt like dying. I was so happy!!

    7. But after that, we didn't talk about it. I mean, we were both obviously shy I didnt even look at him in the eye, because I was so embarrassed!

    QUESTION: It's been 2 days now since the incident..My question is; how can I ask him out for a date? Or what can I tell him about that night without it being awkward? And are we even considered boyfriends or what? He definitely is interested though, and if we are, how do I tell him? Because apparently, we're both very new to dating. Yes, it's quite sad, I know.

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME GUYS!
    "Hey. I had a really great time on ? night! Wondering if you'd want to go get something to eat at ? on ?. Speak to you soon! "

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    What I'm actually wondering is why you didn't mention anyone else's name except your best friend...does she have a stronger part to play in this?

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    (Original post by Eva.Gregoria)
    What I'm actually wondering is why you didn't mention anyone else's name except your best friend...does she have a stronger part to play in this?

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    yeah she does. She was the one who helped me get him from day1 (my friends didnt know I was bi)
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    Call him up and ask him out. The direct approach is usually the best one.
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    Urghh, just because you're gay/bi doesn't mean you need to act like a girl

    just be a typical guy and text him saying 'yo brah, had fun the other day, wanna bang sometime?'

    and he should be a guy and reply 'yeah brah, mad horny for the D yo'

    /end

    why complicate things
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    (Original post by bigwhalegambler)
    Urghh, just because you're gay/bi doesn't mean you need to act like a girl

    just be a typical guy and text him saying 'yo brah, had fun the other day, wanna bang sometime?'

    and he should be a guy and reply 'yeah brah, mad horny for the D yo'

    /end

    why complicate things
    Dat post! :colone::sexface:

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    (Original post by bigwhalegambler)
    Urghh, just because you're gay/bi doesn't mean you need to act like a girl

    just be a typical guy and text him saying 'yo brah, had fun the other day, wanna bang sometime?'

    and he should be a guy and reply 'yeah brah, mad horny for the D yo'

    /end

    why complicate things
    You're hilarious. That made me literally LOL! :P Lol I can't...I have too much respect to talk to him like that...he's really special to me
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    If you're sure he likes you why on earth are you dithering? Text and ask him out! Suggest drinks and a meal in the evening - always a winner and plenty of time to talk.

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