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My life is complicated (and really disturbing if i think about it)

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Reply 1

pink_lucie

you're not having an 'affair' with your sister in law get that straight.
you're having sex with your cousin? dude you have ISSUES!

and dont worry you gf wont be able to tell your not a virgin.

just stop having sex with everyone!!!!!

your 16!!! not 25!!!!!

Reply 2

Andy Spark

It's quite simple, providing things don't go wrong:

Stop with your brother's wife. If she doesn't and tells people about it, claim it was her that started it and blackmailed you into it. That would be harsh on her but essentially it's what she's done - she knows you would be obsessed with sex and played to your weaknesses. Chances are she'll keep quiet anyway because it could be raised under rape charges or at least some sort of sex offense (position of trust issues, etc).

Stop with your cousin. She probably doesn't want people to know she partakes in incest anyway so she'll keep quiet.

With your girlfriend - make sure you are totally devoted to just her now. If she thinks you are too good at sex, claim innocence and say you must just be a natural. She'd be scared to let you go :p:

Although all of that might seem too jokey, it's the truth and with enough self-confidence, you should be able to pull it off.

Reply 3

generalebriety

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My brother's wife
You really need to stop that. She might be naturally attracted to you (common genes) or might just be using you, but hey... she's clearly got the dominant role here. Only you can break it off, especially if she doesn't seem to want to.

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My cousin
This is legal, and not too morally wrong, except for the obvious fact that it's illegal for her to be having sex... for a very good reason. :rolleyes:

I hope if nothing else you're using condoms, for everyone's sake. The least of your worries would be the "incest" taunting you'd be getting off your entire family.

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I'm scared shes going to find out that I'm not a virgin, is there anyway that she can find this out? I really want our relationship to be straight but I don't know how I can sort it out...
No, there isn't. However, if you can't break off the above relationships, come clean to your girlfriend. What you're doing to her is horrible. You are being greedy, there is no other word for it.

Pff. I'm going to stop writing now. It's not worth it.

Reply 4

Emerald

I agree with GG, just keep away from your sister in law and the fact that you haven't had sex with her means its not an affair. Also theres like child abuse issues going on there with you being 14 and her what 25 when you 'done things' With the whole cousin thing I don't know about the Uk but in some countries its not illegal. although the fact that it just seems to be about sex indicates to me that you should stop it as for one you're cheating on your girlfriend. Lastly your girlfriend won't be able to tell your not a virgin but maybe if you're serious about her and really do love her then you need to come clean to her. Good luck mate :smile:

Reply 5

generalebriety

jokeroid

funny, I'm 16 and I spend most of my life on forums or reading books.

I suppose it all balances out in the end.

Reply 6

Fleece

Tbh if you cared about your gf the tiniest bit a) you wouldn't be committing incest etc and b) you'd split up with her for her sake. I, for one, would not want to be in a relationship with someone who was sleeping with his cousin. Oh, and dabbling with his brother's wife. Nice.

Reply 7

pink_lucie

ok i think this is a troll....anyone agree with me?

Reply 8

generalebriety

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Argh, I hardly ever speak to my cousin or my brothers wife. I swear to god its become part of there/my lives. I have absoloutly no idea how to fix this.

With my cousin we basically wait till there's no1 around and then meet up at the bathroom. She's actually my second cousin so I'm guessing thats why she doesn't mind it.

We don't speak at all, its the same with my brothers wife.

Do I just stop them when they go for it?

No. You don't turn up. :confused:

They'll get the idea. Make sure you know everyone's gone out, and they know you know everyone's gone out, and watch tv or go out. :rolleyes:

Reply 9

generalebriety

gossip_girl

ok i think this is a troll....anyone agree with me?

I thought that. But why would anyone type so much unless they were that bored? And if they're that bored, they clearly need entertainment, desperately. :p:

Reply 10

orbelina

for the love of god stop having sex with family members!

Reply 11

Ron Stoppable

Fleece

Oh, and dabbling with his brother's wife. Nice.

No - dabbling with his brother's wife = Niece.

Reply 12

Fleece

Ron Stoppable

No - dabbling with his brother's wife = Niece.

That'd work if it was his brother's daughter :p:

Reply 13

Emerald

gossip_girl

ok i think this is a troll....anyone agree with me?

Ok I'm assuming this isn't the kind of troll that lives under a bridge and refuses billy goats permission to go by :rolleyes:

so what do you mean by troll :confused:

Reply 14

becky.fm

Ron Stoppable

No - dabbling with his brother's wife = Niece.

Hehe... that made me laugh :biggrin:

Reply 15

Mr Brightside

i wish i was you mate

Reply 16

Jacktion

Ask your mother for it and complete the set.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

It sounds like one of those litrotica stories!

Reply 18

Mr Brightside

i think its all a big lie being totally honest. Which i always am lol

Reply 19

Anonymous #2

NONONO!

I am a girl and the worst thing you could do is LIE ABOUT WHY you're breaking up with me. She's a sensitive girl, she'll know you're not telling the truth. Plus, if you're breaking off all the other affairs i don't think it's necessary that you break up with your gf. You should just...let's see... tell her you've done something that could hurt her/cheated on her at some point in your guys relationship and that you JUST realized that you love her more than you thought and that it's important to you that she knows. Come what may. She'll forgive you (I'm almost certain) and your life will go back to normal.