Should i tell her?

Iv known this girl for about 16 years, iv fancied her for years and were really good friends! Should i tell her? Her bday is soon wot do i get her, if she says no see how akward is it gonna be

Reply 1

poltroon

Welshdude

Iv known this girl for about 16 years, iv fancied her for years and were really good friends! Should i tell her? Her bday is soon wot do i get her, if she says no see how akward is it gonna be

Do you mean we're? If not, I would have a think about why your friendship came to halt before embarking on any romantic endeavours.

Reply 2

ladyportacabin

Get her a nice thoughtful and personal present and tell her you like her. You lot are so cute!

Reply 3

technik

get something small and not overly expensive and talk to her when you give it to her.

a) she'll like it and like you and its happy days
b) she declines but doesn't feel terrible doing it to someone whos turned up with hundreds of quids worth of stuff.

in both instances you get rid of the nagging "do i or not". take a chance and see what happens. if nothing, then just remain friends (it can be done)

Reply 4

bone-machine

Welshdude

Iv known this girl for about 16 years, iv fancied her for years and were really good friends! Should i tell her? Her bday is soon wot do i get her, if she says no see how akward is it gonna be

to be honest..she probably knows and is choosing to ignore it...you may think your doign a good job at hiding it but people usually give themselves away..ie the soft/glistening eyes you get when you look at someone you fancy..and just general way you act towards her..my guess is that shes figured it out

Reply 5

miss_buttercup

show that you know and understand her really well by getting (or making) her a really thoughtfull gift, something not many other people would think to get her. maybe put together a gud old mix CD, or make her a funky bracelet, or put together a photo album or even buy something that reminds you of her or a joke you two share. good luck xx

Reply 6

Tyler Durden

Get her something thoughtful and unique and personal to her. Then tell her you like her.

Reply 7

Hlasta

Welshdude

Iv known this girl for about 16 years, iv fancied her for years and were really good friends! Should i tell her? Her bday is soon wot do i get her, if she says no see how akward is it gonna be

Whilst it might be very nice to say something to her on her birthday if she does feel the same way, it might be a bit awkward if she does not as presumabally you will be spending time with her. How soon is it? It might be worth waiting until afterwards perhaps refering to a nice thoughtful gift you gave her and commenting how you spent lots of time thinking about it and her... although try not to scare her or make the gift seem like more of a prop than anything else.