can you help me?

this may sound weird but its about a dream.im a girl and last night i had a dream about a woman teacher.that she came t my house to chack through my work but then she was flirting with me and putting her head in my lap and stuff and i liked it.
so i woke up and now im really confused.i dont know if that means im bi or what.shes the only one who i thought that shes attractive and thats it.
can you help me?

Reply 1

username47781

20

In english please? anyway we all cannot control what we dream about so it doesn't mean your bi.

Reply 2

darryl

13

Anonymous

this may sound weird but its about a dream.im a girl and last night i had a dream about a woman teacher.that she came t my house to chack through my work but then she was flirting with me and putting her head in my lap and stuff and i liked it.
so i woke up and now im really confused.i dont know if that means im bi or what.shes the only one who i thought that shes attractive and thats it.
can you help me?

Stuff like that is pretty common, there is no problem to sort.

Just have a giggle about it and get carry on, nothing to worry about! :rolleyes:

Reply 3

clyn

1

Possibly means she represents something else to you?

Reply 4

zav

14

Don't worry about it. It does not mean you are bi, people’s sub-conscious thinks about all different kinds of things and options. Even if you are going through a different sexual stage in your life a lot of people do in the late teens early 20's and it is usually a phase.
I would not think to much into it you enjoyed it so what :smile:

Reply 5

Nutter

16

Thread of the day.

Reply 6

Eternity Forever

12

Anonymous

this may sound weird but its about a dream.im a girl and last night i had a dream about a woman teacher.that she came t my house to chack through my work but then she was flirting with me and putting her head in my lap and stuff and i liked it.
so i woke up and now im really confused.i dont know if that means im bi or what.shes the only one who i thought that shes attractive and thats it.
can you help me?

Dreams can be interpreted differently. Just because she did that in your dream, it doesn't automatically mean your bisexual. Have you felt any thing for another girl before? I think that maybe this female teacher played an important role in your life at school or because you thought she was the most attractive, your brain processed that and that dream was just a reflection of what you remembered of her or the way she treated you. Your brain might have interpreted that differently.
Most dream interpreters today are like palm readers. They strive to tell your future and ascribe magical powers or messages to dreams that would be wonderful if true but are unfortunately as realistic as séances or reading tea leaves. Its like a magic trick, we all know its not real, but unless we find out how it is done then we are continually fooled. You can't be fooled into thinking that it is magic.

Thus, in a dream, our brain can be fooled as long as it doesn't know that it is being fooled. Since most people don't know the explanation for the dream, they obviously are unaware of the foolery going on, and the dreams keep going. Once you know the cause of the dream, you know that the brain was being fooled; therefore, it is now much easier for the brain to figure out the truth and the dream disappears. Before you figured out the truth, the brain did not even know that it was being fooled, so it had no reason to even attempt to look for the truth. Now it all seems to make sense. So there is really no need to think that you are bisexual. Was that the first time that happened or has it happened before? (in your dreams ofcourse)

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

i had a dream about a week ago which was that me and her were sitting having dinner.ive never had feelings for another woman.i had her as a teacher for the past 2 years, and she was a good teacher but i cant see how that would make me have dreams like that!

can you help me?

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