What do you girls really want?

Hi...Ive got a couple of best mates who I spend most weekends ging out with. We kinda have another 2 mates who we see a lot too but theyre not our best besties. Anyway, one of them is actually a knobhead. The thing is, he always gets the girls whereas the rest of us "sometimes" get lucky. Now this guy is no charmer and behaves with women like he does with us....Like a tosser. Hes not even interesting..... Without wanting to sound stupid or naive or too confident, we're quite a good looking bunch, know how to have a laugh, are quite interesting (having travelled, worked etc) and generally the guys are very likeable, approachable and easy going. Perfect boyfriend material if you ask me :wink:

So what is it you girls want? Converation? Sex and no conversation? Sex and stupid conversation? Company? :smile:

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Reply 1

Lib

mique2

So what is it you girls want? Converation? Sex and no conversation? Sex and stupid conversation? Company? :smile:

Different girls, different times, different things. And if your friend is such a tosser, why hang out with him?

Money.

everything :biggrin:

mique2

So what is it ... girls want?

Consult Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Do it.

Reply 5

WokSz

I would say that it depends on the girl really. This might be a cliché, but confidence is a plus.

Reply 6

banksy

Girls want to get pregnant.

Reply 7

Glory

love, but i supose that wasnt the generalisation you was asking for. Sexual favours then.

Reply 8

totallydeflated

lots of hugs, kisses and care :biggrin:

Reply 9

high priestess fnord

sex. lots and lots of sex, and more sex.

Reply 10

Tyler Durden

All girls want the same thing. Individuality is a myth.

The above is not true.

Take from this what you will.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Seems to me you are way to insecure with yourself and think girls are just gonna come up to cos you're average in most ways as you put it.

Guys like him make the effort and you may not realise it but still have conversations with the girls. They respond to that, no girl wants a guy who thinks he doesnt have to do anything.. and brings everything down to conversation and sex..

Reply 12

abc137

Intimacy, Commitment and Passion

Reply 13

mique2

To fill you in with some more info....We are not insecure, dont have a small dick and do have success....Its just this guy is a tosser basically but he always gets it. Just fascinates me really.... And he kinda hangs out with us, not the other way round.

Reply 14

Wanderlust

englishstudent

All girls want the same thing. Individuality is a myth.

The above is not true.

Take from this what you will.

I'm afraid that many readers of this forum can't actually comprehend a multiple line reply.

Reply 15

M'Lady

WokSz

I would say that it depends on the girl really. This might be a cliché, but confidence is a plus.

Over confidence can have the opposite effect.

Reply 16

Marie05

Ron Stoppable

Consult Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Do it.

Reply 17

subterfuge

Well at a guess, your mate who gets the girls is the one who's most forward when you go out & meet girls. He's probably the one talking most to them and making them laugh, even if he's being a tosser. Maybe you're kind of in the conversation but speaking more to your guy mate or having a drink.

If thats true, there's your answer.