sex question

ok so i lost my virginity (A), and i bled the first time and the second time. When i had sex for a thrid time with someone(B) else i dont think i bled. if i have sex with A and i bleed is there something with him? or me?

sorry but this is really bugging me

Reply 1

Glory

1

Maybe lad B is smaller, or your just finally broke in and have stretched enough to manage them without ripping/tearing/stretching.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

i just dont want to bleed again, A told me i left blood on his sheet twice and that sort of embarrassed me and i dont want it to happen again.

Reply 3

Glory

1

A sounds like a dick. He sounds very clueless, alot of guys expect it. its not your fault and you shouldnt feel bad. Ive heard the more you do it the less blood is produced, eventually there will be none.

Reply 4

Happy1

14

I bled the first few times... it depends on the size of the penises i think. A larger one will stretch you each time and rip the hymen open more than a thinner one.

Reply 5

banksy

1

Glory

A sounds like a dick.

Sounds like a playa to me.

Reply 6

kitty12

1

don't worry and certainly don't be embarressed.

Reply 7

Anner

Anonymous

ok so i lost my virginity (A), and i bled the first time and the second time. When i had sex for a thrid time with someone(B) else i dont think i bled. if i have sex with A and i bleed is there something with him? or me?

sorry but this is really bugging me

I've never bled, ever! WTF is wrong with me??? :rolleyes:

Reply 8

norelle

5

Aria87

I've never bled, ever! WTF is wrong with me??? :rolleyes:

Ever ridden a horse? Done gymnastics? Done the splits while drunk one night? Your hymen was already broken before you had sex, that's why you've never bled.

Reply 9

Welshdude

its nothin to worry about. Alot of girls have a smaller vagina, therefore when it splits while having sex it will bleed. This does happen to loads of women, and like yourself loads of women get freaked by it. By the time you went with B your cervix must have opened abit more. Dont worry about it, ure fine just the way of life!!

Reply 10

Laura Lou

13

Welshdude

its nothin to worry about. Alot of girls have a smaller cervix, therefore when it splits while having sex it will bleed. This does happen to loads of women, and like yourself loads of women get freaked by it. By the time you went with B your cervix must have opened abit more. Dont worry about it, ure fine just the way of life!!

Are you crazy?!!!!

Reply 11

Helenia

20

Welshdude

its nothin to worry about. Alot of girls have a smaller cervix, therefore when it splits while having sex it will bleed. This does happen to loads of women, and like yourself loads of women get freaked by it. By the time you went with B your cervix must have opened abit more. Dont worry about it, ure fine just the way of life!!

Do you actually realise what the cervix is?

Reply 12

Glory

1

and where it is :wink:

Reply 13

Talya

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Welshdude

its nothin to worry about. Alot of girls have a smaller cervix, therefore when it splits while having sex it will bleed. This does happen to loads of women, and like yourself loads of women get freaked by it. By the time you went with B your cervix must have opened abit more. Dont worry about it, ure fine just the way of life!!

The standard of Sex Ed. in Wales must be appalling.

Cervix on Wikipedia (no graphic images)

Reply 14

sssh

10

Welshdude

its nothin to worry about. Alot of girls have a smaller cervix, therefore when it splits while having sex it will bleed. This does happen to loads of women, and like yourself loads of women get freaked by it. By the time you went with B your cervix must have opened abit more. Dont worry about it, ure fine just the way of life!!

Jesus Christ! I hope my cervix never splits while I'm having sex!

Reply 15

Wkd_Intent

oooh who feels like a pillock now.

Reply 16

Anonymous #2

I bled the first and second time only with the first person I slept with, then the next 5/6 times with this person, I didn't. Both the 3rd and 5th people I slept with, I bled. So I've got 2 theories: 1. That they were both bigger, and 2. Because there was such a huge gap between them and the one before them, that it was perhaps a little less "stretched". (I'm thinking theory number 1 is best)

So basically, if you slept with person A again and bled, it probably would just be that he's bigger than person B.