Partner (male) has never orgasmed from sex

It is possible that things will change without a condom, but make sure you both see GP's get checked for STI's and make sure you have other birth control measures in place, see GP for this too.

Did he always use a condom with his previous partners? If so, then the above is more possible, but otherwise it is probably a psychological issue.

Thanks for the advice. He said that he became addicted to porn - I guess that's a cause of some sort of psychological issue?

He said he had used a condom every time but once but for some reason he didn't seem to count it - I didn't press the issue

Had sex for the first time with the guy I'm seeing last night. 20 minutes into it, he tells me he has never orgasmed from intercourse or oral sex from any of his 6 previous sexual partners and he didn't with me either.

We chatted after and he basically used to spend hours masturbating. I asked how frequently he still did it and he said that he had abstained for the last two weeks but still didn't reach anywhere near orgasm (!!). We did use a condom as I'm not currently on the pill but I wonder if even not having to use a condom would make a difference??

This is completely new to me. It sounds fairly crude but I've never been with a guy and not been able to bring him to orgasm - sex is now completely different.

Has anyone been in a similar situation before? Any ideas on what I could suggest? Any other information or experience dealing with something like this?