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childhood crushes

Heya, I wondering if I could have some advice. Ok, well since the 2rd grade, I had this enormous crush on this guy till the last day at the school in yr 6. he also liked me (I think). I’m now currently in yr 13, and recently saw him and he looks amazingly fit like he always did. I have lost in contact with him but my one of my friends goes to his school, do you think I should get in contact with him again? Or dya think I should move on and get over it…..
What if he doesn’t remember me? And what if he didn’t like me then…. Oh, I’m sooo confused…..

Please be supportive and help me and give me some advice. Much appreciated
Kikiwi
Heya, I wondering if I could have some advice. Ok, well since the 2rd grade, I had this enormous crush on this guy till the last day at the school in yr 6. he also liked me (I think). I’m now currently in yr 13, and recently saw him and he looks amazingly fit like he always did. I have lost in contact with him but my one of my friends goes to his school, do you think I should get in contact with him again? Or dya think I should move on and get over it…..
What if he doesn’t remember me? And what if he didn’t like me then…. Oh, I’m sooo confused…..

Please be supportive and help me and give me some advice. Much appreciated …
I crushed on Kylie when I was 5 and she was Charlene in Neighbours. :biggrin: Then my best girl friend, Jessica Newton, when I was 7/8ish. Then a variety of girls in choirs/orchestras/bands, singing/drama/dance classes, swimming/tennis squads and perhaps a teacher or two. Then tennis player Pat Rafter's wife after I met her at Wimbledon when I was 14. Then my Westlife-loving tickle-fighting sixth form bessie Loz Morris. Then a plethora of girls met at parties, summer camps and university.

Yet it was only once I was settled at uni that I really started taking action and happily went about making plenty of mistakes :rolleyes: to learn how to do it right. That I'm an incredibly fast learner who ruthlessly triages his interests has generated loads more time for me to add a myriad of other fun things to my schedule too.

So the lesson learnt? Open all worthy doors. Get in touch with this crush AND meet plenty of others in the meantime. Don't worry about other people sacrosanctly holding the notion that relationships must be exclusive, because all you'll be doing is hanging out, going fun places with someone to tag along and entertain you. You're just checking them out - seeing if they're interesting enough for you. Have fun! :wink:
Reply 2
thank you for the advice...and i took it...but i've had no response from him....i think i've jsut been rejected or mayeb he doesnt remember me, or hates me for somthing i may have done years ago....
Reply 3
Kikiwi
thank you for the advice...and i took it...but i've had no response from him....i think i've jsut been rejected or mayeb he doesnt remember me, or hates me for somthing i may have done years ago....

or hasn't had time to reply?
Don't be so negative.
I'm quite excited for you really...my childhood crush ended up on drugs...I wish that could have worked out better lol

We're you ever quite close? Good friends back in the day?
I think mine ended up losing her virginity on a park bench to some chav :eek:
Reply 5
Anonymous
I think mine ended up losing her virginity on a park bench to some chav :eek:

I think our childhood crushes would make an outstanding couple don't you?
ooh I'm tempted to do this too! I've just broken up with my bf of 2 years and feel like seeing some old male friends, whom he'd never let me see! He only lives two roads away but I can't just hang outside his house all day...any ideas?
Undercover Angel
ooh I'm tempted to do this too! I've just broken up with my bf of 2 years and feel like seeing some old male friends, whom he'd never let me see! He only lives two roads away but I can't just hang outside his house all day...any ideas?
You can do whatever you like in Edmonton!
I don't live in Edmonton so don't stalk me please:P
lol my childhood crush is currently with some other girl for about a little over a year now in NZ
Reply 10
well i guess your right... how long will he wait till contacting me...i never understood boys....*sigh*....

well what i remember is that i played hard to get then and "acted" if i disliked boys...lol, but then on the last day of yr6 my friend told him that i fancied him...but i denied it...lol...but we both knew the truth (well i knew that i liked him...lol)