ANOTHER ONE: does he like me?

i know that this thread topic is really annoying, but i'm doing this anyway:

so there is this boy i really like and he just graduated from high school and i'm going to be a sophmore next year. he lives about an hour away from me but our families are really really close. i went to his graduation party and we were both really shy at first until i went to talk to him and it was awkward for the both of us at first and then it got better. we didn't talk for a while that night and then later a belly dancer came over and he was dancing and then a lot of people started dancing and i was still sitting

before i knew it, he had walked over near me and held out his hand sort of asking me to dance with him...it wasn't anything formal. i was guessing he did it just as a friendly thing, but i'm hoping otherwise.

at the beginning he didn't remember my name and then when i said bye to him, i was like "oh you remembered my name!" as a joke and he said "i wouldn't forget your name." not in too much a romantic way or anything, but it was nice.

so what do you think?

(thanx for putting up with another one of these)

Reply 1

unfinished sympathy

15

i think he likes you but maybe he's just shy, does he have a girlfriend?

Reply 2

veniceROOTs

OP

nope. no girlfriend! (thank god. lol)

Reply 3

Cano234

ummm im not sure if he likes you as anything more than a friend, thats something i would do with a girl who i saw as a friend

Reply 4

Profesh

20

If your name is something akin to 'Brunhelda', then I sincerely doubt it.

Reply 5

Appanouki

He likes you.

Reply 6

PinkPig

I think he likes you. If he's shy, give him time.

Reply 7

cloudofcalm

1

You can't tell from that, tbh. Guys aren't, like, subtle. If they fancy you, they flirt - even if they're shy. From simply asking you to dance, you can't tell...

Reply 8

Peders

He might do, although hard to tell. He could just be shy and that was as far as he was willing to go without noing where you stood!

Reply 9

username47781

20

Why don't you get to know him a bit more first like go out somewhere.

Reply 10

speedstacker

3

as a girl i think you sould be able to feel if he likes you or not, erm... am i right? Girls are sensitive (well, most).

Reply 11

unfinished sympathy

15

speedstacker

as a girl i think you sould be able to feel if he likes you or not, erm... am i right? Girls are sensitive (well, most).

i'm not, i'm bloody useless, there is another guy at my gym, and i don't knoiw if he likes me. I see him looking at me sometimes, but i don't know if he likes me or not! Im totally useless where men are concerned, and boy is he handsome, and french too..

Reply 12

veniceROOTs

OP

as a girl i think you sould be able to feel if he likes you or not, erm... am i right? Girls are sensitive (well, most).

i think he might like me, but i might be confusing myself with whether he really does or whether i'm just hoping he does and that's why i think he does.
i dunno! lol

Reply 13

seafairy

1

unfinished sympathy

i'm not, i'm bloody useless, there is another guy at my gym, and i don't knoiw if he likes me. I see him looking at me sometimes, but i don't know if he likes me or not! Im totally useless where men are concerned, and boy is he handsome, and french too..

same here this waiter at worked came up to me and this is how it went:
(im italian)
W: Are italian girls aloud boyfriends?
ME: Ermm..yeah....
W: Do you have a boyfriend?:
ME:no...
W: Why dont you have a boyfriend?
ME: dont know...im pretty busy with stuff right now..
W: Well you wouldnt have to see him all the time...2 or 3 times a week..

I thought this might be a polish thing...(hes polish)

Anyway my friend said it was his way of asking me out..Personally i still think not... Hes like 26 years old something like that..and he knows how old i am because he kept asking me..

Back to the point, i think asking you to dance could be an indication that he likes you but you deffinately have to spend more time with him to know really.

Reply 14

veniceROOTs

OP

LUCIDA...

the guy definitely likes you. If he didn't, then he wouldn't be interested in whether you have a boyfriend or not.

...and i definitely agree with you about spending more time with him. it's pretty much impossible though since he lives a little far away and i can't really drive so the only time we see each other is at family functions (happens every once in a while). that's the only reason i think he might not like me. he'll probably forget about me. but the thing is that i'm trying to convince myself that he really liked me by thinking about how he could have picked any other girl to dance with that was at the party...but he didn't.
that's a good sign right, or was it just coincidence or maybe he felt bad that i wasn't dancing. ugh..i dunno.

Reply 15

seafairy

1

Even if he felt sorry for you the fact that he actually approached you shows that he cares therefore it's likely he 'likes' you and pursuing you crossed his mind but believes nothing could really happen due to your distance and the fact you dont see each other often. If you want something to happen then you will have to communicate. Either like over the internet (messaging email etc) by trying to get his email address, or plan how you could approach him the next time you see him and hope to god he hasn't found someone already.

As for the waiter guy i should have realised earlier lol as he has now moved to Germany :smile:

Reply 16

Appanouki

cloudofcalm

You can't tell from that, tbh. Guys aren't, like, subtle. If they fancy you, they flirt - even if they're shy. From simply asking you to dance, you can't tell...

Ok, so then explain why he would ask her then? Because he doesn't like her? All the signs are there hun.

Reply 17

veniceROOTs

OP

guys don't always flirt. i think.

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

This girl asked who is my girlfriend and then went kinda shy and she is defo not a shy person, and she knows i always tell everyone how nice she is, would that mean she likes me or is that just being nice :confused:

. I think she is out of my league in terms of personality though!

[also she said that she is single without me asking]

Reply 19

danni_bella

17

Yeah sounds like he does.

Good luck with your romance life and be sure to tell us what happens :biggrin:

xo

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