He lied to me!!!

I am really good friends with my ex-boyfriend, but I recently found out that he told me a major lie about sleeping with this girl (he even described it!) and let me believe it for about a year! The only reason I found out is by accident when I was talking to her! Why did he do this and how can I learn to trust him again?! :frown:

Reply 1

Cano234

He prob did it to try and make you jealous?

Reply 2

Nutter

I'm assuming you broke up because of a similar negative experience, hence you should have learned from the past.

Otherwise, it's not like he owes you anything now. He probably just wants to feel jealous/regret breaking up with him, and you shouldn't be dwelling upon this.

Harsh, but true.

Reply 3

strawberry

oh exes are mostly liars. mine lied to a friend about the reason we broke up.
I was SO angry.

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Mine made up a load of bull**** that made me feel so bad for her that i phoned her and she never picked up. Then she went and told all her friends and bf [the guy she cheated on me with] that i'm hassling her. Damn, i ex's can be so pathetic even if they were the one to blame for the collapse of the relationship!

Reply 5

Wanderlust

strawberry

oh exes are mostly liars. mine lied to a friend about the reason we broke up.
I was SO angry.

You do realise that you are an ex too, when you say exes are mostly liars?

...What are you lying about then?

:confused:

Reply 6

username47781

Wanderlust

You do realise that you are an ex too, when you say exes are mostly liars?

...What are you lying about then?

:confused:

I'm afraid that post is completely correct your an ex to i'm afraid he can do what he wants in his life, your not with him no more, sorry to sound harsh but it's true.

Reply 7

Bubblebee

Well, get over it for one thing. If you want to be his firend still your just gonna have to take it in your stride. If you don't care much about him, let him go.
Was this a lie he told while in the relationship with you?

Reply 8

darryl

Men are scum, what else do you want us to say?? :rolleyes:

Reply 9

Wonderboy Blue

You probably only want to be his friend cos you think something might be reborn...

This just gives you one more reason to hate him and cut all contact. I've never lied about who I've slept with (even though in most cases, I really should have!)
to either a current gf or an ex.

Your ex is probably insecure or something. So am I but its unadmitted and it doesnt affect my relationships.