People saying your bust isn't real

I find it really annoying when people say stuff like 'oh her bust isn't real' and I get it all the time.

What's up with that?? :confused:

Am an 8DD, so size 8 around the back with DDs. I don't think it's anything to be ashamed about either, and I have had some 'omg weird' comments in my time.

I remember seeing other members on here with similar bust size to me, do you find that people ask if yours are real too? :frown:

xoxoo

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Reply 1

Barny

Oh who gives a ****, really? I've never heard of people questioning whether somebodys boobs are real or not, after all, most people here are under 21, how many 18 year olds do you know that have had boob jobs?

Go moan to all your model friends who actually care about this crap.

Reply 2

Mangaroo

might have been a mistake or that they are just envious
Either way it would be an unintended compliment, when you can rub it into their faces that they are real ^___^

Reply 3

danni_bella

Mangaroo

might have been a mistake or that they are just envious
Either way it would be an unintended compliment, when you can rub it into their faces that they are real ^___^

Mine are defo real, couldn't afford it if I tried!

Anyway I had two people ask me on the last promo I did on Sunday, and I did tell the truth, but I thought it was a bit intrusive :/

Reply 4

Mangaroo

why, you ought to have a massive grin on your face as you tell them

Jealousy

Mangaroo

why, you ought to have a massive grin on your face as you tell them

Yeah sometimes I wish I were a guy, I'd have it so much easier and just laugh at people if they said things like that to me! :biggrin:

But I'm not, I'm female and I got offended when I was asked :frown:

Reply 7

Mangaroo

your life is so hard danni :smile:

Reply 8

danni_bella

Mangaroo

your life is so hard danni :smile:

Lol but also there are other people on here with this issue, there's a girl - I forget her name, I think Rachel, but she's really nice and I can relate to her b/c we both find it difficult to find bras.

I wish she was here :hugs:

Reply 9

Mangaroo

maybe you should set up a support group :P

Reply 10

danni_bella

Mangaroo

maybe you should set up a support group :P

Haha.

Seriously I always get comments like 'I bet they're fake' said to me behind my back (and I can hear them :rolleyes:

), and it's irritating because mine are totally natural! !

*tantrum*

:smile:

Reply 11

Mangaroo

lol...harsh..

Seriously I always get comments like 'I bet they're fake' said to me behind my back (and I can hear them ), and it's irritating because mine are totally natural! !

its annoying but people bitch like that all the time for different reasons, its bound to happen. would you rather have smaller breasts and get different/no comments, or (as im sure you would prefer) to have your breasts, because its not exactly unbearable what you go through is it :biggrin:

Reply 12

ImperceptibleNinja

When you have people commenting on them being fake, you could always come back with a comment about what bad projection they must be suffering from, and how sorry you feel for them.

Dictionary.com: Projection
(8)Psychology.
(A)The attribution of one's own attitudes, feelings, or suppositions to others: “Even trained anthropologists have been guilty of unconscious projectionof clothing the subjects of their research in theories brought with them into the field” (Alex Shoumatoff).
(B)The attribution of one's own attitudes, feelings, or desires to someone or something as a naive or unconscious defense against anxiety or guilt.

Reply 13

Mangaroo

well sometimes people are generally interested with a "they look so good they cant be real" kind of idea, and i think it would be disproportionate to tell them they must not be very confident about themselves..but it would be a good bitchy response >=)

Reply 14

ImperceptibleNinja

I was thinking it might be quite handy for dealing with the 'omg weird' comments. :smile:

I'd be quite flattered if someone asked if my boobs were fake - if they're asking, they're not presuming, so your boobs can't look fake=plastic. I agree that they probably notice you have nice boobs, and because they're nice, they question whether or not it's natural.