help : i dont know what to do

alright guys i need your advice. well there is this girl i fancy, she is hot, she's got a nice smile and a great personality. However, i know this girl does not feel the same way i do, just say i can pick up vibes. Therefore i am not going to try anything as it will turn out to be a negative result. i told my friends in confidence that i liked her, when we went on holiday to tenerife, but me not knowing that they were recording what i was saying and what i was doing to a pillow (that i was pretending that was her) i was VERY DRUNK I DON'T NORMALLY ACT LIKE THIS. anyway my friends showed her the video, thought that it would be funny, well i majorly embarrassed now with that girl, do you think i should talk to her about everything and reassure her that i am not going to try anything etc. safe

Reply 1

Mangaroo

12

i think you should just sincerely apologise and not talk about it otherwise..(it depends on how the girl reacted to it really, but apologising should benefit you).

Reply 2

Peders

To be honest she probably thought it was funny, seeing as you were drunk.
Talk to her about it if you want. It couldn't do any harm and could be a good way to get talking even if it is an embarrasing situation.

Reply 3

Montrose

17

As above. Apologise, explain you were drunk, and then try and start a proper conversation with her about a common interest. Will help you both to forget it, if that is what is needed.

Reply 4

ther r in r&B

OP

the thing is she found out from another friend i had a thing for her, but for some reason she thought that i thought she was a whore and i would never marry her or something. i apologised for that, but i also believed that she watched the video but when i apoligised but she did not know about anything about the video, she just watched the video yesterday. SORRY FOR THE INCORRECT GRAMMER

Reply 5

sharan

jst say ur sorry n u genuinely like her, jst reassure her ur not a tosser

Reply 6

ther r in r&B

OP

the thing is she is way out of my leauge. the thing is that i am a big guy, not really big like obese but slightly over weight and in addition because i do muscle training it just makes look even bigger. and she is a reall,y stunning girl and not only that she has got a great personality. out of 10 i would rate her 9. and me on that scale i am 5. so it is no point trying anything you see what i mean.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

the hindu-punjabi stallion

alright guys i need your advice. well there is this girl i fancy, she is hot, she's got a nice smile and a great personality. However, i know this girl does not feel the same way i do, just say i can pick up vibes. Therefore i am not going to try anything as it will turn out to be a negative result. i told my friends in confidence that i liked her, when we went on holiday to tenerife, but me not knowing that they were recording what i was saying and what i was doing to a pillow (that i was pretending that was her) i was VERY DRUNK I DON'T NORMALLY ACT LIKE THIS. anyway my friends showed her the video, thought that it would be funny, well i majorly embarrassed now with that girl, do you think i should talk to her about everything and reassure her that i am not going to try anything etc. safe

wembley? if u dont mind me asking, which school do u go to?

Reply 8

foxo

17

Bah. This is hypocritical coming from me but you're being far too self-conscious and self-critical. It's for her to decide whether she's too good for you or otherwise; you won't know how she feels unless she actually rejects you, and if that happens then at least you gave it a shot.

Reply 9

ther r in r&B

OP

i dont go to school in wembley but jls in harrow why you asking??

Reply 10

ther r in r&B

OP

to foxo's reply thanks, but i know what the outcome will be definitley and the thing is i have just got to know her recently and i like to rather know her as a friend then nothing else. i fancy many girls , but never do anything because again i know they are way out of my leauge

Reply 11

xx Lotz xx

ya gotta apologise sincerley, but tht may be the perfect timing 2 make a move. reassure her that you dont always act like that, n tht u would love 2 get 2 know her better, no strings attached jus as m8z, n see whta happens 4rom there. if she ses no dnt give up, bt dnt bug her either

good luck hun xx

Reply 12

kpg

11

Whenever you have a moment together in private, just apologise to her. Tell her you got a bit out of control and you're sorry etc.

And can we see the video?? :biggrin:

lol j.k

help : i dont know what to do

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