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by being yourself around them
slap them.


or if youre non-violent, moon them
Anonymous
I was wondering how much male/female attention you get. Whats the best way to get a guys attention and whats the best way to get a girls attention?


Quite a bit. The best way to get the attention of men, I find, is to make an effort with how you look and act like normal. Being yourself is the key, then you'll always be involved with people who actually like the real you.
Anonymous
I was wondering how much male/female attention you get. Whats the best way to get a guys attention and whats the best way to get a girls attention?


I get a lot, compared to my friends. But that's just because I act more confident, look men I find attractive in the eye, etc. I'm generally very friendly with guys as well, so it's easy for them to talk to me.
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Timeslikethese
Quite a bit. The best way to get the attention of men, I find, is to make an effort with how you look and act like normal. Being yourself is the key, then you'll always be involved with people who actually like the real you.


You say make an effort...but men can rarely tell the difference between someone that has spent hours doing their hair, make up, choosing an outfit and someone that has spent 5-10 minutes doing the same.
It's more a matter of being confident and happy in yourself and what you are wearing.
Luize
You say make an effort...but men can rarely tell the difference between someone that has spent hours doing their hair, make up, choosing an outfit and someone that has spent 5-10 minutes doing the same.
It's more a matter of being confident and happy in yourself and what you are wearing.


you sure about that? If you take more care of yourself and make a good effort - you look better than the average girl.
Luize
You say make an effort...but men can rarely tell the difference between someone that has spent hours doing their hair, make up, choosing an outfit and someone that has spent 5-10 minutes doing the same.
It's more a matter of being confident and happy in yourself and what you are wearing.


Well if in 10 minutes you pick a killer outfit, then no, they can't.
But in general, wearing a bit of makeup and fixing your hair makes everyone look better. People who wear makeup and look worse aren't doing it right.
Reply 8
Timeslikethese
you sure about that? If you take more care of yourself and make a good effort - you look better than the average girl.


Yes. I have spent hours getting ready before and also spent about 15 minutes getting ready. People couldn't tell the difference. I wore make up and did my hair both times but even my bf couldn't tell.
Now it's either that I'm crap at getting ready and can't improve with more time. Or that all the extra time was spent doing things that weren't noticable. (I don't include showering in this time as if I knew I was going out that night I would shower just after dinner due to my shower in halls being so bad I had to jump to get any water on me.)

I'm not saying don't make any effort but taking hours to get ready isn't needed. And anyway what you look like isn't the most important bit, it's being confident.
I find that being cheeky attracts a lot of female attention.
Luize

I'm not saying don't make any effort but taking hours to get ready isn't needed. And anyway what you look like isn't the most important bit, it's being confident.


But a confident attractive girl is going to get more attention than a confident unattractive girl. So you should make yourself look as attractive as possible with what God gave you, and be confident as well!
Luize
Yes. I have spent hours getting ready before and also spent about 15 minutes getting ready. People couldn't tell the difference. I wore make up and did my hair both times but even my bf couldn't tell.
Now it's either that I'm crap at getting ready and can't improve with more time. Or that all the extra time was spent doing things that weren't noticable. (I don't include showering in this time as if I knew I was going out that night I would shower just after dinner due to my shower in halls being so bad I had to jump to get any water on me.)

I'm not saying don't make any effort but taking hours to get ready isn't needed. And anyway what you look like isn't the most important bit, it's being confident.


If I spend longer getting ready than if i did it in 15 mins, I feel more confident and that's noticeable.
Reply 12
shady lane
But a confident attractive girl is going to get more attention than a confident unattractive girl. So you should make yourself look as attractive as possible with what God gave you, and be confident as well!


But if you can make yourself look as attractive as possible in only 15 minutes whats the point in spending more time. Maybe it's just me that can get ready in that time then. It's not like I don't do anything when getting ready or skimp on stuff. I wear make up, do my hair and just do it in a quick time.
Reply 13
flash your breasts and pull out your cock.

yehaw.

no... as the first person said, be yourself..
Reply 14
being myself has sucked so far lol all lies! but seriously i guess i can see how this can be a good strategy. maybe make yourself more involved in social situations too
Reply 15
I get that much attention i can barely walk down the street.
Reply 16
I hug guys all the time. Even friends of guy mates who they've just ibtroduced me to. They all like hugs. Guys are lucky if I spend 15 minutes getting ready - I shower, brush teeth and put on first clean jeans and top on my floor... I dont wake up til I'm out the house.
Insignificant to none. Not as far as I can see. But if I'm ever about town with my sister she sees loads of lasses checking me out apparently. However, I never see them, and as a result, I believe she's just being nice to me, and trying to get my confidence up.
attention? ha! the only attention i get is if i fall over or publicly humiliate myself! good job i'm used to it really!
Reply 19
I don't like lots of male attention. The only attention I want is from my boyfriend, I always feel I'm doing something wrong and coming across in the wrong way if I get lots of male attention.