I'm a man so I think I qualify for giving an opinion here.
1. I find a woman's apparel to be of little relevance to their beauty. Shoes included.
2. I find shorter to be better, but it's not the be-all-and-end-all.
3. I don't see much issue with a woman being heavy, so long as she is reasonably physically fit.
For me, 5"0 to 5"8, but I don't see height to be too relevant, for me anyway.
Just my 2p.