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love lost!!!!!!



Okay this may sound pathetic but its over for me, finished and ended!!!
but im still stuck!!! the reason me and him broke up is because of his sister, she told him that if he carries on seeing me there will be problems with us when we get older and his words for me were "i'm going to forget my true love for my sister" me and him dont live in the same area and it may take up to 10 hours for us get to each others place :frown: so we decided to keep in touch through mail, however i dont want it to end shall i mail him back?? he said that i should not mail nor contact him in anyway cause hes gona break his promiss and his sister would never forgive him. But i still dont want this to end and he doesnt either, can i have some help please cause my head is not thinking right, thank you

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i don't understand...why is your relationship any of his sister's business?
are you sure he's not lying and is just looking for an excuse
Reply 3
errmm incest? :eek:
Reply 4
its her business because she knows both out parents and knows the outcome if our parents found out about is and wants to help, but shes making this more complicated
Reply 5
ya im sure hes not because i've spoken to his sister and shes said the same thing
ooh i see, so it's a secret relationship. i guess it makes a bit more sense but...if i said that to my bro he'd probs just punch me. what would happen if your parents found out?
Reply 7
I'm confused. Could you please punctuate so we get the full meaning of your posts. You and your boyfriend have broken up because his sister thinks there will be some massive fallout when your parents find our you're a couple? What's the issue? Beat her to it and tell them yourself!
Reply 8
well if i told my parents they would just about kill me or totaly make my life hell
Reply 9
Segat1
I'm confused. Could you please punctuate so we get the full meaning of your posts. You and your boyfriend have broken up because his sister thinks there will be some massive fallout when your parents find our you're a couple? What's the issue? Beat her to it and tell them yourself!


its not about her telling first or us, its about them finding out, if they find out now then we would both be in serious trouble and it would never work, so shes making this replationship end to stop that outcome
Anonymous
well if i told my parents they would just about kill me or totaly make my life hell


maybe he's just looking out for you by ending things before they turn nasty with your parents. it's probs hurting him as much as it hurts you but...could be the best for you both. the fact that he made a promise to his sister may be a way of making things easier on himself, and less likely to go back to you. but who knows...men are weird.
Reply 11
OK why will will they go mad? How old are you?
I'm guessing either you're not from a European background or your boyfriend is old and you are young.
Reply 13
i gess you guys are rit but shall i mail him back? oh n im 16
Reply 14
englishstudent
I'm guessing either you're not from a European background or your boyfriend is old and you are young.


Seconded.

I'd say mail him, cutting him out will hurt more than being friends. But that might just be me, others prefer the purging technique, 100% no contact.
i dont think you should mail him. imagine the likely outcome, he'd never forgive you for making him break his promise, and youd have ended the relationship on an even worse note than now. at least if you respect what he wants then there may be a chance to relight the flamesof passion later in life, but right now i think you need to try to rip off the plaster and accept it's over, rather than slowly pulling it off and prolonging the pain.

did that even make sense? lol
I love lost too!!!!

My head is also not thinking right when I watch it.
Reply 17
i dono what to do, one half of me is saying mail mail mail and the other doesnt give a responce, i want to, maybe it will work out i mean we both jumped to a conclustion and maybe it will work out but then theres a chance it wont
why not mail his sister instead? then the promise remains in tact
Reply 19
mailing her sister isnt a bad idea but tat would mean i've lost aontact with him