Guys: would you ever flirt with a girl to make fun of her?

I would say relax a little bit more. Sure there are some guys who are arse holes, but they are in the minority. Seek out some some people, male and female, who you trust to have fun with. I am sure you have a lot going for you.

Those previous statements and questions were simply a test. You sound like a lovely person and should not dishearted because some superficial scumbags mistreat you. Really are they the type of people you would desire to be in a relationship with anyway. As for ugly duckling syndrome, that is a loaded and horrible term, you should feel good about yourself and I wish you all the best for the future.

Question for guys: would you ever flirt with a girl to take the piss because you thought she was unattractive or easy or something? (I'm 19 btw and so are many of the guys I'm talking about)

Since coming to uni I sometimes get guys who I don't know well trying to have 'banter' with me often when their friends are around, but I get the feeling that they are trying to make fun of me in front of their friends, sort of like 'look at me flirting with/trying to 'play' the average/unattractice girl' Of course they might just be being friendly without any flirty intentions

The feeling is amplifies when a guy has been chatting and laughing with a friend and then comes up to talk to me - I cant help but think they're mocking me so always assume a defensive position. I thought guys had grown out of this :/

I've been told by some poeple that I'm quite good looking or at least above average tho Id have what you call ugly-duckling syndrome i.e. was not attractive in my formative years and went to a girls school so not much experience with guys. Question is why does this keep happening??!

Makes sense, haha thanks

Those previous statements and questions were simply a test. You sound like a lovely person and should not dishearted because some superficial scumbags mistreat you. Really are they the type of people you would desire to be in a relationship with anyway. As for ugly duckling syndrome, that is a loaded and horrible term, you should feel good about yourself and I wish you all the best for the future.

I have some friends that do this haha

Er, did you read the first post? She said guys are just talking to her, she just sounds paranoid that's they're being horrible.

Personally I've never even heard of anyone doing that before. I'd say you're just overthinking.

I have some friends that do this haha

It's not particularly funny. What do you think they get out of doing this?

I've seen friends do it too, but they do it with fat or ugly girls really, not attractive ones as the OP has been described as.

It can be for two reasons...you're either insecure and think you're uglier than you are. The other reasons could be they're drunk and you're a bit unattractive so see you as an easy lay.

Obviously this doesn't answer your question unless you've got an objective view of yourself...most girls don't.

They know they're good looking guys and they use it to their advantage

And what is the usual outcome of these scenarios? Do the girls fall for it or realize whats going on?

They usually don't realise what's going on