18 year old Male, still a virgin

Oh.. well I'm female and a virgin also at 18. I'm not in any rush, but it bothers me that it's always being brought up. Like 'why haven't you done it yet?' well, in all honesty I've never been in a relationship, I'm the tallest person I know (taller than the majority of decent guys I know) so that's an automatic put off for anyone.

I've always wanted to wait till marriage though.
That's if any guy ever is that patient (how likely?)

Out of interest if you dont mind me asking how tall are you? I myself am 18, still a virgin and im 6'5... I wouldn't call it a put off for everyone, certainly not for me anyhow, just try and find the right person

Im 18, a male, reasonably good looking, a nice guy, yet still a virgin. How? I really dont know, if it is not because I have never had a girlfriend, is it because I am too much of a "nice guy"?

Anyway it has come to depress me now, after discovering tonight that my friend who does not work, is not amazing looking, has no qualifications and lives off his mum had sex with a 32 year old, it does makes me feel hopeless. I have a friend who works in a coffee shop, he was having a fling with a 30 year old mother of three in which he brought evidence to my frontdoor, it is stuff like this which makes me look in the mirror and feel pathetic, everybody I know thinks im not a virgin due to my confidence and decent looks, yet it is the total opposite. The closest I got was when I was 17 and made out with a girl abroad with my mates, due to not having a condom the night was over fast, the sight of a bare penis caused her to conjur up about the only word she spoke in English, which was, "disgusting".

There has been two occasions where sex seemed inevitable, but there has always been something to get in the way. The first time I was pulled into a bedroom at a house party by a good looking girl, she found out I was a boxer and tried kissing me, groping me and then layed on the bed, but my loyalty to my bestfriend who passed out hours before meant I did not proceed, he had deep feelings for her at the time. On the second occasion I was visiting my future University, and me and some friends went clubbing. Two sisters (one 19 and one 26 + engaged) found out I was a boxer, and started putting hands up my shirt etc, they made it very clear they wanted me to come back to their house and I was confident this was the moment I would go from pathetic and weak boy into a man, but my ******* friend saved the day by scaring them off and trying to kiss them before we exchanged numbers, you are correct in thinking I had a go at him in the middle of the club. When I am out I get excited by the smallest interaction with females, a 26 year old aquaintance asked to dance with me recently when out, I would not have had sex with this particular girl but the feeling that she thought I was attractive enough to grind on made me feel good.

As I mentioned before, everyone assumes I am not a virgin because I seem to fit the bill as one of the guys who would have lost it early to a girlfriend, I am decent looking, confident yet humble and nice, an athlete with a good body among other positive things. I am by no means perfect, I have braces lol around socially confident people I can be awkward, I also get intimidated by people who have had sex due to feeling like they are more of a "adult" therefore "man" than me. I would be lying if I said a PART of the reason I am going to University is to discover myself better socially, sexually etc and I am really looking forward to it and hope it will help me.

Are there any other 18+ virgins here? would you consider yourself decent looking? do you think we are a minority?

I ask these questions because my friends who do know im a virgin always say I am late....

Thanks everyone, hope this sparks an intereting debate.

Im 18, a male, reasonably good looking, a nice guy, yet still a virgin. How? I really dont know, if it is not because I have never had a girlfriend, is it because I am too much of a "nice guy"?

Anyway it has come to depress me now, after discovering tonight that my friend who does not work, is not amazing looking, has no qualifications and lives off his mum had sex with a 32 year old, it does makes me feel hopeless. I have a friend who works in a coffee shop, he was having a fling with a 30 year old mother of three in which he brought evidence to my frontdoor, it is stuff like this which makes me look in the mirror and feel pathetic, everybody I know thinks im not a virgin due to my confidence and decent looks, yet it is the total opposite. The closest I got was when I was 17 and made out with a girl abroad with my mates, due to not having a condom the night was over fast, the sight of a bare penis caused her to conjur up about the only word she spoke in English, which was, "disgusting".

There has been two occasions where sex seemed inevitable, but there has always been something to get in the way. The first time I was pulled into a bedroom at a house party by a good looking girl, she found out I was a boxer and tried kissing me, groping me and then layed on the bed, but my loyalty to my bestfriend who passed out hours before meant I did not proceed, he had deep feelings for her at the time. On the second occasion I was visiting my future University, and me and some friends went clubbing. Two sisters (one 19 and one 26 + engaged) found out I was a boxer, and started putting hands up my shirt etc, they made it very clear they wanted me to come back to their house and I was confident this was the moment I would go from pathetic and weak boy into a man, but my ******* friend saved the day by scaring them off and trying to kiss them before we exchanged numbers, you are correct in thinking I had a go at him in the middle of the club. When I am out I get excited by the smallest interaction with females, a 26 year old aquaintance asked to dance with me recently when out, I would not have had sex with this particular girl but the feeling that she thought I was attractive enough to grind on made me feel good.

As I mentioned before, everyone assumes I am not a virgin because I seem to fit the bill as one of the guys who would have lost it early to a girlfriend, I am decent looking, confident yet humble and nice, an athlete with a good body among other positive things. I am by no means perfect, I have braces lol around socially confident people I can be awkward, I also get intimidated by people who have had sex due to feeling like they are more of a "adult" therefore "man" than me. I would be lying if I said a PART of the reason I am going to University is to discover myself better socially, sexually etc and I am really looking forward to it and hope it will help me.

Are there any other 18+ virgins here? would you consider yourself decent looking? do you think we are a minority?

I ask these questions because my friends who do know im a virgin always say I am late....

Thanks everyone, hope this sparks an intereting debate.

High dude I totally feel what your going through, or where going through this is an old question... But I'm 18 and still a virgin like you I can be confident, I'm funny and everyone see's me as one of the guys, yeah I can be very self conscious and awkward... I'm not fantastic looking, I'm not fat,I've just got a little chubby but im reasonably ok... But not the worst in the world... My friend that is even worse than me lost his virginity and my mate that is younger than me lost his years ago... Just feel embarrassed about it, and shy... shyness is my main problem plus I've been single for 3 years startin to feel real lonely

The OP is now 20... how did you even find this thread?