I fell in love online... but then I found out I was being "catfished"

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HAHA YES PLEASE! You beat me with 5 I only have one now since my 1 year old kitty passed away recently... hardest time of my life, I was almost suicidal at one point, I know its crazy to believe but really I never realised how much she brought into my life in just one year... so hard to lose a kitty like that
It didnt help that she was also accidently mass cremated when the vets recieved her body she was left in the freezer, and the day we found out was the day she was accidently mass cremated
UGH so yeah IDEK why I am rambling on about this lol woops oh wellll

We had 6 till our lil baby died too :'( r.i.p Tricksy, Tammy, Terry, Timmy <3

Reply 41

iLoveMyCatsx

Original post by marinaim

We had 6 till our lil baby died too :'( r.i.p Tricksy, Tammy, Terry, Timmy <3

So sad, but I would rather have loved and lost to have never loved at all regarding my kitty as i am sure you do with yours

Reply 42

Inazuma

Original post by iLoveMyCatsx

So sad, but I would rather have loved and lost to have never loved at all regarding my kitty as i am sure you do with yours

Indeed, lovely babies <3 <3

Reply 43

iLoveMyCatsx

hmmm idk if i should contact the guy i was actually talking to, i know its normal for me to have reacted badly but like now i feel so guilty :frown:

Reply 44

cel93

Original post by iLoveMyCatsx

LOL you're kidding me right?!?!

No. I have seen more muscles in a fish market.

Reply 45

Daniellejo.

It sounds like you're infatuated with his 'looks', not him.

Reply 46

iLoveMyCatsx

Original post by cel93

No. I have seen more muscles in a fish market.

really?

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10153075880700602&set=pb.634870601.-2207520000.1392825646.&type=3&src=https%3A%2F%2Fscontent-a-lhr.xx.fbcdn.net%2Fhphotos-ash2%2Ft1%2F1002117_10153075880700602_2019180475_n.jpg&size=640%2C640

http://instagram.com/p/gNSzPCNQjC/

http://instagram.com/p/gnCzHVtQn6/

okay then.

Reply 47

cel93

Original post by iLoveMyCatsx

LOL. I have more muscle than that.

Reply 48

iLoveMyCatsx

Original post by cel93

LOL. I have more muscle than that.

Well congrats because I haven't even seen a guy in real life with half the muscles of that guy!

Reply 49

River85

Original post by Robbie242

This view is so annoying :colonhash:

it's like you believe nothing happens over the internet and its all just incomparable to real life, I think it's quite easy to get infatuated over the net tbh

Infatated, yes. Falling in love is a different story.

Reply 50

cel93

Original post by iLoveMyCatsx

Well congrats because I haven't even seen a guy in real life with half the muscles of that guy!

Seriously that guy would be running scared if he seen me.

Reply 51

Mankytoes

Original post by marinaim

Wouldn't even give him a first look.
But seriously OP, you'll be ok. To reiterate, don't get infatuated online. It will hurt but brush it off!
And also, personality is more important than looks....

A lot of people seem to be talking like infatuation is rational and a choice...

Reply 52

Aljohara

Honestly, I'm not saying that you're shallow but from what it sounds to me, it looks like you were more infatuated with his looks than the actual guy you've been talking to. If you did like the guy you were talking to then you would have continued talking to him for him. So, I'm pretty sure this will pass soon.

Reply 53

Inazuma

Original post by Mankytoes

A lot of people seem to be talking like infatuation is rational and a choice...

It's not, but the decisions leading up to it are

Reply 54

joseon

Original post by Aljohara

Honestly, I'm not saying that you're shallow..

Well you probably should be.

Reply 55

iLoveMyCatsx

Original post by cel93

Seriously that guy would be running scared if he seen me.

lmao okay then

Reply 56

Aljohara

Original post by joseon

Well you probably should be.

Infatuation happens to everyone.It can be with people you know and even celebrities you've never met. It's normal and by time, it'll lessen.

Reply 57

iLoveMyCatsx

Original post by Aljohara

yeah i agree tbh, just I do feel bad with how i ended things with the real guy... like i feel sorry for him because all he could do was apologise and i was a right bitch to him
but he did really hurt me with that so idk maybe i should forgive him? :frown:

Reply 58

Aljohara

Original post by iLoveMyCatsx

I honestly don't know if you should forgive him because he's lied before and what's to stop him from lying again...

Reply 59

joseon

Original post by Aljohara

Infatuation happens to everyone.It can be with people you know and even celebrities you've never met. It's normal and by time, it'll lessen.

I don't disagree. But clearly the OP is far more concerned with appearance than anything else, which is pretty much the dictionary definition of shallow.