What sould you do when ur gf cheats?

So last night i get a phone call from abroad, girl friend who lives away and wont see her until september says she got really drunk and spent the entire night making out with this other guy. She just woke up and now shes really sorry. We've only been together 2/3 months. She does sound sorry.

What would you do?

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Reply 1

SuperhansFavouriteAlsatian

choke the bitch

Reply 2

Talon

Well she took the trouble to phone you...its really your decision. Do you believe shes sorry?

Reply 3

Bean945

DanGrover

choke the bitch

Insightful advice there.

i believe her

DanGrover

choke the bitch

do you wonder why you have level 5 warnings? :p:

uhm.. to be honest mate, i'd give it up. as most people say, once a cheater, always a cheater... plus if she has a tendency to get drunk and go and snog random strangers, it really can't be a good thing. at the end of the day though, it's up to you.

Reply 6

water__lily21

keep seeing her until she gets back, and see if she does it agen!

Reply 7

aced

Dump her. If you don't, she won't respect you at all.

Reply 8

Talon

Anonymous

i believe her

Well its your relationship. You know how much she means to you. We dont. My advice would be to talk it through when she gets back. Atleast she didnt do anything sexual with him...

Reply 9

pumpkin7

water__lily22

keep seeing her until she gets back, and see if she does it agen!

i don't think he wants to get to the point where he has to.

Reply 10

Solid_L

Hmm, a toughie, it really is up to you; and how you feel about her, if you think she really is sorry you could give her one last chance. After all, if she is abroad you never would have known she cheated unless she told you... so in that respect she must respect you some.

I personally would say 1 last chance, but definately only let it be 1 last chance.

Reply 11

SuperhansFavouriteAlsatian

pumpkin7

do you wonder why you have level 5 warnings? :p:

Seven, act you alley. But they are all for insulting people. If I got a warning every time i just said something unhelpful (and often alluring to sexual/domestic abuse) i'd have been banned a while back.

Reply 12

pumpkin7

t'was five when i last posted.

Reply 13

Cut your ties and move on. You've not been together long enough for the relationship to be worth hanging onto, especially if it's long distance. If she's cheated once, there's nothing to stop the tart doing it again!

Reply 14

Peders

Too be honest the choice is yours, if you feel that she truly is sorry then maybe you can give her another chance, and she did tell you about it, so that bodes well for her. However you do have to consider that you will probably now have that nagging doubt in the back of your head about what she is upto.

I have been cheated on several times and have chosed to end the relationship each time as i didn't want that nagging doubt about what she would be upto when she was out on a night!

Reply 15

Solid_L

Personally, I have never been cheated on... so perhaps the advise off someone who has been in the situation is more worthwhile than my own...

Reply 16

sundissential

stay with her, but if ur out sometimes between now and september and wanna pull someone, then do it :smile:

Reply 17

Ron Stoppable

Anonymous

One of the options you have is to emulate this short film on how to get the ultimate revenge after being spurned by your girlfriend. I'm not sure who made it, but it's remarkably well done. :wink:

Reply 18

amywalters

They say that the first few months of dating set expectations in the relationship - if 2/3 months in she can't be faithful, what makes you think she can be a year or two down the line?

Reply 19

Solid_L

^but in the same way... after 2/3 months your not as serious as you would be after 2 years... and so you may be less likely to cheat when in a serious relationship.