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Try talking to someone close to you e.g. a family member or close friend, and let them know how you feel.
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You could make an appointment with GP. Feeling suicidal is definitely a good enough reason to make an emergency appointment, so don’t feel afraid to ask for that.
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Contact the Samaritans. The Samaritans is a confidential listening service available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. You can contact them by phone, email, letter, or by dropping in at one of their branches (branches however are not open 24/7). You can find all their details here - http://www.samaritans.org/
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Contact Nightline. Nightline is a confidential listening service available at night. You can contact them by phone and a 1:1 messaging service. Their e-mailing service is open throughout the day. You can find their details here - http://nightline.ac.uk/
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Try and keep yourself busy - try some of the distraction here (link to depression distractions thread)
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If you are with Mental Health services you could contact your care-coordinator, or if you don’t have one, the duty team.
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If you have a care plan, refer to that and follow your crisis plan.
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Contact your local Mental Health Crisis Resolution and Home Treatment Team.
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Reach out for help at the earliest opportunity.
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Go and see a doctor if you can. Yes it will be scary and yes your head might be screaming at you not to, but in the long run, thats the way you're going to get the most support, be it medications, therapy, whatever - plus if you end up needing an extension or extenuating circumstances you will most likely be asked to see a doctor anyway.
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Take advantage of the help provided by the university - counselling, therapy, support groups. The NHS has giant waiting lists and private is pricey, so when we're talking about a couple month long semester, it really does come in handy.
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Tell your personal tutor, module organiser, studies advisor, whoever is the person that looks out for you and your studies as soon as you feel comfortable, tell them as much as you can and give them regular updates. Having a good relationship with them could prove very helpful if you need an extension/miss an exam/need to defer for a year.
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Have a friend who knows a decent chunk of information, not only is a problem shared a problem halved, but if worst comes to worst, if something happens to you or you do something to yourself, you will have somebody there who will have a bit of an idea and will be able to calm everybody down and add some clarity to the situation (they also act as a handy advocate for a night in if you don't fancy going out one evening)
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Acknowledge your ability and shortcomings.
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If an essay is due next week and you're in a depressive episode unable to get out of bed, then get an extension. Don't push yourself and make your mental health worse by trying to force yourself - it's not worth it.
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Don't leave everything until the last minute - you won't do yourself any good wired up on red bull and pulling all nighters.
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Don't feel guilty for not studying 24/7. Your down time can count just as much towards your grades as your study time.
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Stock up on some supplies to keep in your room - tea/coffee/squash, nonperishable food, microwaveable food, dvds, books, blankets - if you're in a place where you don't feel up to interacting with people, having everything you need to just have a bit of a mental health day can be exactly what you need to push yourself through the rough patch.
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Draw up a life timetable - I've never been one to timetable my academics, but I do timetable the rest of my life - its much easier to take breaks and have afternoons off and such to do stuff that you enjoy doing when they've always been in the works and aren't spontaneous.
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Write everything down, i.e deadlines, when/where all of your lectures are. I don't know about you, but when I'm in a really bad patch, I have the memory span of a flea.
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Understand and get your mind over the idea that you won't always be the best. A lot of us at uni will have come from a class where quite often we were very good at the topic and we were used to being towards the top of the class. Accept that that will be the situation for everybody in your year, and not everybody can come at the top of the class all the time. As long as you did as much as you could, try and accept that.
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Always be open to trying different study techniques/methods, you never know what you will discover.
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Push your boundaries.
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