Don't quite know what to do?

You can't expect him to do all the planning, he might think you're not interested in him. If you like him then arrange something yourself.

He might have been busy, as another user said why don't you contact him?

Not sure. Why don't you try to schedule a meeting with him yourself?

Just taken your advice, and sent him a message. Haven't heard anything, however gut instinct tells me he's knocked this one on the head, but hasn't got the balls to tell me! If he was that interested in me, surely he would have been in touch by now? Just a shame really as I did think he was quite a cool guy; treated me right throughout both dates and showed that he was 'into me' on the 2nd date by holding my hand, hugs and the kiss at the end of the date. If you're not interested in someone, why do all that? baffles me!

It's possible that he doesn't have a strong preference either way.

Or perhaps he wants sex.

Just taken your advice, and sent him a message. Haven't heard anything, however gut instinct tells me he's knocked this one on the head, but hasn't got the balls to tell me! If he was that interested in me, surely he would have been in touch by now? Just a shame really as I did think he was quite a cool guy; treated me right throughout both dates and showed that he was 'into me' on the 2nd date by holding my hand, hugs and the kiss at the end of the date. If you're not interested in someone, why do all that? baffles me!

Give him a while, if he doesn't reply in a couple of days then never mind about him. Plenty of fish in the sea eh

I'll give him til Tuesday, if I hear nothing by then will delete number and move on. Just would appreciate a response to be honest. But hey ho.....I never have any luck whatsoever with men, don't think I'm meant to date any!

Awh no, you can definitely attract men or he never would have wanted a 2nd date. Don't put yourself down. It can be really difficult to find someone compatible. You and him have had a good time, and now if he isn't responding to you, then partly ok he might not want a relationship with you, but partly it suggests he's just not the kind of guy for you.

That's the thing.....I seem to attract (those single & in relationships), YET I never get passed 2nd date. Clearly there's something wrong with me? :-/ Am I doing something wrong? Really don't get it. Just feel like at my age (28 next week), I should at least have a bf. People constantly asking is starting to take its toll, & the odd few are poking fun at me because of it. I'm not desperate in that sense but it really would be nice to have a relationship with someone; someone who appreciates me for me, treats me right & actually doesn't mess me around.

You're talking a lot about being treated right, about being appreciated, lots of things about how he should be with you - what about how you are with him? Could it be that in waiting to be treated so well, in focusing so much on being the 'other half' of the date, you're not really offering much in the way of 'give' and take? That sounds a bit like it to me - apologies if it's a bad assumption, but I think a lot of women do this without really realising. There's nothing wrong with being forward and making your feelings clear physically and vocally, too many women think they have to wait for the first move, first compliment, first question before they respond with 'how about you?' - turn it around. Talk about him, ask him questions based on what you've heard, remember things from the last conversation and bring them up again to show you're caring and listening, etc. When he's talking about an experience, don't just respond with 'oh something like that happened to me once, my friend.. blah' - keep it focused on him. It's amazing how many people think they're 'listening' but really, they're just waiting for something they can relate back to themselves and their own lives.

I agree with others who say it sounds like this one has passed. Maybe you could ask him why he wasn't interested in another date? You might get some 'feedback', and to be honest there's nothing to lose now so no harm will be done by being forward with that point.

I'm really confused :-/. If he wanted sex surely he would have made that clear from day 1/first time I met him? I did ask me last week what brought me to Tinder, & I said curiousity and what friends had said. He said more or less the same when we started talking. I guess I can speculate/guess as much as I want but only time will tell I guess....but think I know where this is going.....!

It really sucks, OP.
I had a similar experience as well, although it became an actual relationship. Met someone on Tinder, dated for three months, decided to make it a relationship and after not even a month he stopped texting me. Just move on, if he doesn't text you or doesn't have a good excuse for not contacting you, good riddance.

He may want different things, and that it may have gone a little too slow for him.

But how?? We only had 2 dates, how could he have possibly wanted more?? :-/ Ah well I'm not fussed now anyway as I've removed his number and deleted my Tinder account. I'm moving on....

Why can't he? Everyone expects different things. There are people who want sex on first dates.