Why do some girls wear revealing clothes and then get angry at unwanted attention?

Me neither, or at least cardigans.

Wouldn't know about that, but I know some girls who have a serious problem with it and it's unfair that guys see girls with bigger breasts as more "Up for it".

I don't mind people glancing, but leering is creepy and I don't like it, and I don't mind comments as long as they're not overtly sexual. I like wearing dresses that show my legs sometimes but I try not to go around flashing my a** at everyone.

Also, I actually get more creepy attention in clubs when I'm dressed more modestly and more of me is covered. How does that work?

And for the love of god don't grope people unless they consent. Don't just grab people. It's not hard.

If we're going for comfort, then you would wear a jogsuit. Sorry but there is no reason why revealing clothes are more comfortable than modest ones.

Yeah cardigans in winter too Yeah I don't get that mentality either...And it is annoying, the problem with blouses especially frustrates me. It's either, buy your normal size and have it gaping at the chest, or buy a few sizes bigger and it's baggy everywhere else. Or buy custom made but that's such effort.

Yep! If I see a girl with a low cut top, I glance too, I can't help it, I don't mean to be pervy But I don't leer Yeah...I always see girls in summer with the super short demin hotpants with their buttcheeks hanging out, if they feel comfortable cool but it just LOOKS so uncomfortable and unattractive imo.




I've actually found this too. I think that girls in clubs generally wear very revealing dresses and so much makeup that when you look different you stand out more. And yes to the groping thing too Never understood why that's just accepted in clubs.

Who knows? Hell I'm gay and even I'll look at your boobs if you wear a low cut top. If you wear revealing clothing people are going to look, you're putting them on view. Obviously cat calling and sexual harassment are out of line, but looking isn't and frankly you need to get over yourself and wear less revealing clothes if you're uncomfortable with that.

Rightio. In the past year or so I've stopped wearing jeans and now only wear dresses or skirts. Most of my skirts are skater skirts, and they go above the knee. Is this because I am desperate for attention? No. I don't exercise a lot (I'm in the range of very skinny with a bit more cushion that muscle, wehey!) and most of my weight goes to my stomach. It was a pain in the arse to find jeans that fit nicely around the legs without digging into my stomach and giving the dreaded muffin top, or jeans that do fit sometimes crinkle at the knees. With that and my discovery that leggings are much comfier, and things like 300 dernier tights exist, I started wearing skirts and tights/leggings and it is SO much comfier and warmer. Jeans are actually really cold compared to thick-as-hell tights.

So yeah, I chose to change clothing because it's comfier, and it flatters me more. Am I begging for attention? Nope. I wear skirts and dresses every day of my life now. It doesn't mean I want attention, that's pretty small minded of a lot of people to think. People should never assume things about others clothing. What if someone happened to be wearing a dress because it was cheaper and easier than trying to find nice trousers and a top and accessories it..? People need to think of the little things more instead of assuming schit.

If you are a woman with at least half a brain you should know that in this society you will get harassed by men if you dress that way whether you like it or not. However woman out there are fully aware of this and do it purely for the attention. The attention the clothes bring = 'I feel good in this'

The women I see that dress like this daily are the ones that have serious confidence issues and need constant male attention and they are fully aware that it may attract negative attention. Funnily enough as mentioned before if said woman does not find the guy who is ogling her good looking then all of a sudden hes a creepy pervert. So that's why they complain.

You can't wear revealing clothing and then complain if men take glances at you. We are designed to do it! Women check men out just like we check you out. It's just it isn't exactly normal for us to wear next to nothing.

What is unacceptable though is actually shouting harassment at them. That is fully controllable.

You can't wear revealing clothing and then complain if men take glances at you. We are designed to do it! Women check men out just like we check you out. It's just it isn't exactly normal for us to wear next to nothing.

What is unacceptable though is actually shouting harassment at them. That is fully controllable.

If we're going for comfort, then you would wear a jogsuit. Sorry but there is no reason why revealing clothes are more comfortable than modest ones.

I don't intend to offend anyone but why is it that many girls in today's society choose to wear revealing clothes (very short skirts, low neck tops etc.) and then get annoyed when perverted men in the street wolf whistle and try to harass them? Like today for example, I was at the mall and this girl started insulting this dude for 'staring at her breasts' when she chose to wear a low neck top? Surely, if she didn't want such attention, she wouldn't have worn that top? This isn't the first time i've witnessed something like that in public and just curious as to why some women act like this?

Tights are way warmer than jeans. Also more comfy to study in. Also dresses are the ultimate lazy outfit in summer. Grab dress, put on dress, grab shoes, put on shoes, out the door. I love it.

Well you know, girls who don't cover their face and hair are clearly just asking for unwanted attention right? What do they expect for not being modest?

The Primark 300 dernier cosy tights are a total God send, you can't even feel the cold. And definitely, its just so effortless to pick up a dress, put it on, its comfier and you feel great about yourself.