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Ahhh Holiday Romance..

I just come back from holiday, and whilst i was out there met a really great guy. Literally fel for him but he lives in Spain!

Its so annoying feeling like you cant get someone out of your head but with him i just cant! We didnt start 'getting it on' (lol) till the end of the holiday, but i got on with him so well! He is literally one of those amazing people everyone loved him for his wicked personality always so happy, i just miss him!

Should i tell him how i feel? Hes in spain though so not alot can happen, i'm just so upset about it! :frown:

Thinkin of emailing him now but dont know what to say. :frown:

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Reply 1
make it clear how you feel but don't get too attached if it's clearly not going to work.
Of course email him! At least just to keep a friendship going. As long as you're realistic about knowing it probably can't go anywhere really, which it sounds like you are.....but hey, no reason not to keep in contact with him, is it?
Hmmmm difficult one! :frown:

To be fair (like you said) it's not as if anything can happen realistically. If you email him, you have to ask yourself will it achieve anything? Thats something only you can answer personally. Not being harsh, but if you send the email & he doesn't feel the same way, its going to make you feel really bad. If he does feel the same way, yeah it will feel good but then it will hurt as you won't be able to be together.
Reply 4
Yeah i know, i didnt mean e mail him generally, i meant tell him how i feel?
Like I said above, its your call. Good luck hun! :smile:
Reply 6
Ok well this is the email im thinking of sending:

Hi babe.

Just emailing you to talk to you really. I hope you havent forgotten about me! Its kinda weird cause i spoke to you earlier and still miss ya! Never thought id feel like this but i really like you and going home has made me realise it.

I had such a good holiday, meeting you was the highlight obviously ;-)

I just wanna know how you feel really cause i think ive made it pretty clear my feelings and dont wanna say anymore without knowing how you feel.

Just be honest with me cause i need to know. Talk soon hopefully, miss you lots, Hannah xxxxxxxxxxx


? Too serious? aaaaaaaahhhh
Reply 7
Holiday romances are great :smile:
Reply 8
Anonymous
I just come back from holiday, and whilst i was out there met a really great guy. Literally fel for him but he lives in Spain!

Its so annoying feeling like you cant get someone out of your head but with him i just cant! We didnt start 'getting it on' (lol) till the end of the holiday, but i got on with him so well! He is literally one of those amazing people everyone loved him for his wicked personality always so happy, i just miss him!

Should i tell him how i feel? Hes in spain though so not alot can happen, i'm just so upset about it! :frown:

Thinkin of emailing him now but dont know what to say. :frown:


Surely he knows how you feel if you claim to have 'got it on with him' towards the end of the holiday?
Reply 9
NViasko
Surely he knows how you feel if you claim to have 'got it on with him' towards the end of the holiday?




Yeah, but i meant tell him how much im missing him etc, talk to him about things? :confused:
Reply 10
Lilly_May
Yeah, but i meant tell him how much im missing him etc, talk to him about things? :confused:


You may as well move on.
Reply 11
NViasko
You may as well move on.



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Reply 12
Lilly_May
:topic: ;no; ;no; ;no; ;no; ;no;


Not at all. Stop asking randoms to help you construct emails to a guy they don't even know. It's simple: Ask him or don't ask him. For all you know, he could be macking some hot spanish latino chica right now and playing you.

9 times out of 10 holiday romances fade.
Reply 13
NViasko
Not at all. Stop asking randoms to help you construct emails to a guy they don't even know. It's simple: Ask him or don't ask him. For all you know, he could be macking some hot spanish latino chica right now and playing you.

9 times out of 10 holiday romances fade.



Ok, i appreciate what you've said :confused: thanks for the advice.
Reply 14
Lilly_May
Ok, i appreciate what you've said :confused: thanks for the advice.


I accept acknowledgement of your appreciation - Thank you.
Reply 15
Ahhh still at a wits end what to do though.. Life is rather harsh sometimes. *sigh*
Reply 16
Go to bed and have sweet dreams.
Reply 17
He lives in Spain, you don't. It's going to hurt you both if you continue the relationship.
Reply 18
ZigZag
He lives in Spain, you don't. It's going to hurt you both if you continue the relationship.



Yup, i know. Hurts now though, he was definitely one of the best people ive ever met.
You totally got played.