lol yeah it might have been harsh, but, you'll only get confidence once you realise that the things you think matter, like being rejected by a girl, like being called a pussy, like being "neg repped" lol, don't matter! not one little bit.
You might be grateful to the other posters who made you feel better about your lack of genitalia, but I think they're doing you a disservice.
You asked for my opinion, you got it. And I'm the only one who has told you the truth. If you want to talk to women, talk to them, if you are too scared then you are too scared. but don't come online and whinge about it unless you want to hear some honest advice.
Neg rep me all you like, I genuinely couldn't give a ****, but after youve finished trashing my reputation ask yourself if i'm right or wrong